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and another thing.. it has to be semi-intentional whilst drunk, otherwise it would be rape..not cheating
 

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being drunk is an excuse to some extent, because you do things you wouldnt normally do when your drunk, but you know what your doing..even when you dont remember the next day or whatever, you still did it.
 

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Skeeta said:
yes its cheating when drunk. You still do have intention when drunk. For example, you STILL wouldnt do something outrageous like have sex with a relative (mother or father) when drunk, because you KNOW that it is sick and wrong. therefore you must be under some sort of control over your body.
I agree...
 

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natstar said:
Oh I have a question, is kissing someone who is gay, cheating?
i reckon it is. it doesn't matter which sex they prefer, you're still kissing another person while you're in a relationship.

oh and i don't think alcohol is an excuse. i've been pissed like there's no tomorrow and i still know that kissing your best friend's boyfriend is totally wrong. alcohol just gives u confidence to do something u wouldnt do when sober. it's still cheating

these days i've been hit on by guys who are in relationships, that i consider flirting as cheating. why do u need to flirt with another girl if you have a girlfriend? it just hurts the poor girl who thinks you're interested in her! and your girlfriend is left wondering why she doesn't float ya boat.
 

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Is kissing something of another species cheating ?
 

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grk_styl said:
i think the girl would dump you for being disgustingly kinky rather than for cheating :p unless she joins in...

Mike, your perfect girl is the one that takes you to the local playground for a date ;)
my perfect girl is one that takes me to the local playground for a date rape
 

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i consider cheating anything from kissing on the lips to sex, a kiss on the cheek for hello or something is normal...

if my bf cheated i wouldn't get angry, i would just be upset and disappointed... because i know i'd rather him be angry at me rather than disappointed if i'd done the same thing...

but lets hope it doesn't happen, such a depressing topic...
 

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pmr_123 said:
i consider cheating anything from kissing on the lips to sex, a kiss on the cheek for hello or something is normal...

if my bf cheated i wouldn't get angry, i would just be upset and disappointed... because i know i'd rather him be angry at me rather than disappointed if i'd done the same thing...

but lets hope it doesn't happen, such a depressing topic...
are you the one that said you're boyfriend lived in muswellbrook? i come from there hehe

i think everyone has their own definition of cheating personally. i would hate to think that my boyfriend was thinking of another girl sexually or lustfully while we were together, but unless he acted on it i dont think i would define it as cheating. i dunno, until i have it happen to me (which i hope it never done) i wont know what i class as cheating.
 

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_muse_ said:
are you the one that said you're boyfriend lived in muswellbrook? i come from there hehe

i think everyone has their own definition of cheating personally. i would hate to think that my boyfriend was thinking of another girl sexually or lustfully while we were together, but unless he acted on it i dont think i would define it as cheating. i dunno, until i have it happen to me (which i hope it never done) i wont know what i class as cheating.
so youuuu hate porn right?
 

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_muse_ said:
ive got nothing against porn :p
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well then..fair enough
 

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grk_styl said:
i think the girl would dump you for being disgustingly kinky rather than for cheating :p unless she joins in...

Mike, your perfect girl is the one that takes you to the local playground for a date ;)
No dear, my perfect girl would already be at the playground, innocently playing with her other 2 year old friends ;)
 

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yuk thats weird lol... im sure i saw a micheal jackson thread sumwhere maybe you shud go hav a look there.... not that i hav nething against him! And i definatley agree with whoever said that porn is not cheating becos i think u gotta let a poor guy live. I mean who doesnt apreciate porn!!!!
 

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what if the guy was simply asked the girl out n sweet talks?? i reckon that's even worse since it's spiritally off the track. As what u guys said, physically cheating on ur gf/bf is bad, however i reckon some guy did that for the need of it.. overall, they both bad for sure...NONE of us should do it in the first place if you love ur bf/gf....It's just totally WRONG!!!!
here comes with another story when some ppl are just too young for a commitments, claimed that they are "kinda freaked out to stay with one man/woman for the rest of their life"...
my conclusion is if u r serious about this relationship, you reallly shouldn't do anything like that...being tureful to each other is the foundation of a relationship..
 

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pRiNCesS..!! said:
being drunk is an excuse to some extent, because you do things you wouldnt normally do when your drunk, but you know what your doing..even when you dont remember the next day or whatever, you still did it.
yes, i agree...Being drunk isn't an excuse for cheating since human tend to show the ture side of themselves when they drunk. so anyone who has this intention to flirt with someone else when they drunk, this person must've not happy with their current bf/gf.
 
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every person's opinion of cheating differs. i think cheating is kissing and /or touching from then on. although having feelings for someone else who is not your boyf/girlf could be cheating, but you never kno what someone is thinking if they dont tell you.

any kind of intimate act with a person who is not your boyfriend/girlfriend implies you no longer have feelings for them. thus, is cheating.

im not too sure what i would do if i discovered the guy i was going out with was cheating on me. i guess it depends on the situation and how far they went with the other girl. its a sad thing to think about.
 

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natstar said:
Well the situation, one of my gay guy friends decided to kiss a few of the girls on the lips, including me. I told my bf, and he just laughed
yeah i wouldnt call it cheating.. i mean you're bf didnt think anything of it, and you didnt enjoy/want it.

its ok natstar ur a good girl :D
 

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