When to write back... (2 Viewers)

[jessied]

That's bullshit.

mmm thats what i thought... keeping in mind that the girl is 14, the guy 17 and the girls giving advice 18..

 

[santaslayer]

I don't think they will percieve you as desperate if you reply ASAP.
Its all in the wording of your SMS anyways.

 

[absolution*]

And for heavens sake, drunk sms's with misspelled words and fragmented sentences are totally gay.
/rant

 

[ur_inner_child]

And for heavens sake, drunk sms's with misspelled words and fragmented sentences are totally gay.
/rant

i occasionally do that...

i dont actually think logically when i do.

 

[absolution*]

i occasionally do that...

i dont actually think logically when i do.

Yeah, i guess i just dont get it. Id never even think about smsing when drunk. Dancing like a madman and making out is way more fun.

 

[ur_inner_child]

Yeah, i guess i just dont get it. Id never even think about smsing when drunk. Dancing like a madman and making out is way more fun.

hahaha true. I think I do when I'm still drunk but on a bus from the city on the way home all alone.

I don't know how people who drink alone do it without going insane.

 

[soha]

i always write back straight away and i will reply to anything
i always feel obliged to do so
lukily i dont give a shit how high my fone bill is and its only 15 c an sms for me
im also the type of person who always checks voice msgs and i will call back any number if i get a missed call as soon as i see it
maybe thats why my fone bill is so high
oh well

 

[Gavvvvvin]

Waiting to keep them interested?

How fucking childish.

If thats what you have to do to keep someone interested in you, your one sad individual.

 

[ur_inner_child]

i always write back straight away and i will reply to anything
i always feel obliged to do so
lukily i dont give a shit how high my fone bill is and its only 15 c an sms for me
im also the type of person who always checks voice msgs and i will call back any number if i get a missed call as soon as i see it
maybe thats why my fone bill is so high
oh well

are you the type of person when reads this kind of message:

I'll be 5 minutes late sorry

you reply by

k.

cuz i HATE people who do that!

 

[0Jade0]

I write back straight away to everyone. What is the point of waiting? SMS is meant to be quick. Not to wait around so the person doesnt think you like them or whatever the fuck

 

[jessied]

Waiting to keep them interested?

How fucking childish.

If thats what you have to do to keep someone interested in you, your one sad individual.

was that directed at me?

 

[OZGIRL86]

Not sure if this has been a thread before, but anyway...

When's the right time to write back to a msg from a girl/guy you have a "thing" with (ie. in the chasing phase)?? Should you wb asap, or wait 5/10/15/20 mins?

Straight away, why wait around,unless you don't know what to write back and have to think about it.
I usually msg back straight away unless I don't know what to say that's when I think about it first.

 

[D_A]

Usually ASAP, unless I'm in the middle of something...or they're asking something that requires some thinking about. If they don't return it within say, 15-20 mins I'll usually put my phone away and won't bother worrying about it for another couple of hours.

 

[soha]

are you the type of person when reads this kind of message:



you reply by



cuz i HATE people who do that!

haha i hate it too
no i dont reply to that unless i need to tell em something
i hate saying ok or yes or no or cool or one word replys
i fill my msgs up ..so i will say ok blah blah and i will always have something to say

 

[meLoncoLLie]

is it just me (or my phone), or do i often receive messages half an hour or so after they've been sent? some people think i'm always ignoring their messages

and for god's sake, just reply as soon as you see it. no one is going to try guessing why you replied 5 minuntes and 34 seconds later. even if they are, their conclusion might not even be the one you wanted them to come up with (eg. you waited 10 mins before replying to show you're cool or whatever, but they might think you spent that 10 mins editing and re-editing your text)

 

[DanielleM]

write back asap
My bf hates waiting round 4 msgs...

 

[Götterfunken]

Why give a fuck?

Do you honestly think a guy is gonna sit there, ticking off boxes that say:

0 - 5 min: desperate
5 - 10 min: easy
10 - 15 min: acceptable
15 - 20 min: prude

Just reply whenever you damn well have something worth replying with.

I would.

 

[callisto]

geez its not a big deal. it's just an sms..
if it's important i'll write back within like 15 mins, otherwise i might leave it for an hour or so, or until i could be bothered

it annoys me how some ppl reply the instant you send a msg, like they're waiting with their phone beside them. that = desperate

 

[Original_Angel]

Why give a fuck?

Do you honestly think a guy is gonna sit there, ticking off boxes that say:

0 - 5 min: desperate
5 - 10 min: easy
10 - 15 min: acceptable
15 - 20 min: prude

Just reply whenever you damn well have something worth replying with.

totally ditto!

 

[steph@nie]

the other day i replied to a guys message a few hours after he sent it because I was working, and he messaged my friend and said.. why isn't she replying?