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[moll.]

^ probably not mature enough to have sex. First of all you are supposed to wait till your body settles down on the pill before you have sex, two whats the difference between a bit of blood from menstration as opposed to the first sexy-time bleeding and are they just throwing used condoms on the floor?

They're both a bit eccentric. I think they had done it several times using condoms before this, but she'd just started on the pill.
And yes, i do believe he is just throwing the used doms on the floor.

 

[sca]

That's probably not great for you, after all how are you keeping it clean if you are keeping it plugged while in the shower?

If you must know, I have a particularly heavy flow. If I didn't "plug it" there would be blood visibly on my legs (which isn't something I want to deal with). I also don't feel comfortable bleeding in the family shower.

When I have my period, I take the time to sit down and clean myself - keeping it to the relevant areas.

Well it would depend on how willing each party is depending on the heaviness, I presume most people, like myself have discussed this with their partner and found the line. Most probably don't do it when its uber heavy.

If you are in a mature relationship, its not a big deal particuarly if you discuss it to find out how comfortable each partner is. Besides, is it any more gross than other bodily fluids?

I have discussed this with my partner, neither of us are comfortable with menstrual blood. If I have my period, we explore other means of pleasing each other.
If I happen to be light, we're comfortable with dry sex/etcetera through my underwear.
We've explored many things over the time we've been together, but it's pretty established we won't be going there.

It has nothing to do with the maturity of the relationship, but as you say how each party to the relationship feels about it.


The difference between blood and other bodily fluids to me is that sweat/semen/saliva/(even a bit urine that comes as a result of sexual stimulation) would arouse me if it was on my body. However I would not deliberately smear my partner's blood on my body.

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The difference between sexy time durin PMS and popping a girls cherry is chiefly the source of the blood. Menstrual blood is also more likely to contain clotting.

Psychologically cherry blood is more acceptable as it's symbolic as a confirmation/triumph/dominance etc.
(Obviously my and others' issues with menstrual blood are psychological, as blood doesn't do you any physical harm).

 

[sca]

Come to think of it, even if you ignored the existence of the blood durin the sex itself, it'd be somewhat prohibitive when swapping bases.

There's no way you could go back to third without having to wash up first.

 

[Riet]

she was referring to the people in the post before you with the immaturity thing and she's right. Who the fuck just throws condoms on the floor?

 

[i-love-maynard]

lol i know sum1 who chucked one over the fence!

 

[michael1990]

As we say down in Wagga, when the river's red, take the dirt trail.

Sounds good.

 

[Sarah182]

A week without sex isnt that long to wait, jeez.

I'm getting kinda queasy reading some of this stuff... it just seems so.... unclean?

 

[sonyaleeisapixi]

its not really =\
if youre on the rag, us a condom or fuck in the bath or shower

or, as i do, have anal instead

 

[boris]

or just wait, but hey what would i know im just some weirdo who doesn't like sexing with bloody discharges all over my wang

 

[fernando]

or just wait, but hey what would i know im just some weirdo who doesn't like sexing with bloody discharges all over my wang

+ clumpy stuff

 

[boris]

did need to know that at all. i would like to keep my knowledge of what happens in there to a bare minimum

 

[cannibal.horse]

Have sex with a girl while she has her period/have sex while you have your period?

I recently met someone who doesn't mind doin' it while the river runs red and it surprised me, to say the least.

So, would you?

If you've ever had a girlfriend you would not be asking this question.

 

[boris]

I dont get it?

 

[tommykins]

Female friend of mine had just started on the pill and was having ficky fick with her boyfriend all the time. But the pill was screwing around with her menstrual timetable, so on one occassion she apparently had her period during the act with her boyfriend. The boyfriend didn't realise for a while, but was then curious why there was blood on his dick without any pain. When they eventually realised what had happened, he fucking freaked out and ran off to the shower, screaming "IT'S ON MY DICK, IT'S ON MY DICK!!".
Funnily enough, they're still going out. Although i think they use condoms, rather than the pill now.
In a vaguely related story, the boyfriend's dog keeps eating his discarded and used condoms. They don't know what to do about it.

would i happen to know this individual

 

[Scissors]

would i happen to know this individual

silly asian.

 

[boris]

i dont get it

 

[ambermorn]

If you've ever had a girlfriend you would not be asking this question.

I'm a straight female, which makes your comment pointless.

Besides, I do it with my current partner (even with my dislike of blood) and wanted to know who else has as well.

Read before you post, yeah?

 

[moll.]

would i happen to know this individual

Hahaha yeah, they went to our school. Pretty sure you could guess anyway, but don't cos she occasionally uses BoS and wouldn't be too happy about the story.