does their past have an affect on you? (1 Viewer)

[Crashy19]

i mean, is there anything in your potential partner's past relationships that would/does have an affect on you?

what i am really thinking of is: does it bother you if they have had a lot of relationships? or not many? how long they lasted for? why it/they ended?

just anything like that.​

 

[Guesss]

No, not really! Not unless it was something really bad, like i dunno....hmm...

 

[lyounamu]

^agreed.

I wouldn't worry about it.

But if that someone has some sexual worker history or whatever that is as bad as that (or even worse -.-)...that becomes a little bit of isssue

 

[satcbrady]

No, unless that made them low-self-esteemed jealous possessive freaks.

 

[Riet]

No, unless that made them low-self-esteemed jealous possessive freaks.

i'd be kinda worried about something like IV drug use or something tbh

 

[hopethisworks]

YES.

i only date girls who have never been guys before

 

[Davo1111]

it would bother me if they had been in some really fucked up relationships before. But yeah, i don't really ask about their past.

 

[Crashy19]

it would bother me if they had been in some really fucked up relationships before. But yeah, i don't really ask about their past.

like a bad relationship? as in been done wrong by as a whole?

or how they ended and stuff?

 

[LiveFastDieFun]

what do you mean..?

past as in what they've done in their life? or past as in their previous lives?

Because if i found the reincarnation of Hitler, i would TOTALLY do her

 

[cookie.banana]

i think i'd feel intimidated if i went out with a guy who had had like 74378534875 roots before

what do you guyz think about strippers

 

[Davo1111]

like a bad relationship? as in been done wrong by as a whole?

or how they ended and stuff?

mostly the first 2 things, say the guy she went out with was heavily into drugs or something, and she was hooked as a result. having said that, i wouldn't be going out with her anyway. The other thing would be if she went out with someone really really ugly, then her standards wouldn't be too high, so i'd pass. Also if i knew she'd been with like 40 guys, etc etc.

 

[HalcyonSky]

yes

mainly because my jealousy is out of control

 

[SnowFox]

My GF's parents didnt like my past. My mum told them i was skitzophrenic and bi-polar.

That didnt sit well with them >.>

 

[L]

My GF's parents didnt like my past. My mum told them i was skitzophrenic and bi-polar.

That didnt sit well with them >.>

lol i piss on people like you

 

[SnowFox]

lol i piss on people like you

Wow, i guess your mother gets the golden shower all the time then.

 

[jazzzod]

I'm kind of in this position now.
I like this girl.. she's really nice, beautiful and all.. but,
i don't think she has EVER had a serious relationship
or any at that.

So.. i'm extremely nervous as to how she will be when/if i get with her..

lol.
sounds confusing, but yeah.

 

[Omie Jay]

if they've had a lot of past relationships then i'd tend to think theyre a slut, but that didnt stop me from liking this one chick.

 

[Crashy19]

what do you mean..?

past as in what they've done in their life? or past as in their previous lives?

Because if i found the reincarnation of Hitler, i would TOTALLY do her

their life...
do people even know what they have done in their past life/ves?

 

[Crashy19]

I'm kind of in this position now.
I like this girl.. she's really nice, beautiful and all.. but,
i don't think she has EVER had a serious relationship
or any at that.

So.. i'm extremely nervous as to how she will be when/if i get with her..

lol.
sounds confusing, but yeah.

thats what i mean
not knowing how to react of what to do

hope it works out for you

 

[LiveFastDieFun]

their life...
do people even know what they have done in their past life/ves?

I'm sure if you went to see some creepy-ass lady covered in warts who sits in a tent in some back alley at a carnival, she'd be happy to tell you for a fee and i BET it would be true