how do you ask a guy out/to the formal?? (1 Viewer)

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i honestly have no idea
im not sure if he likes me but its worth a shot right?
got any tips as to how i should approach the topic??
i dont wanna get nervous and stuff it up lol

have you ever asked a guy out? should i do this or wait for him or something??
help :confused:
 

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worst thing you can do is make a big deal out of it, just bring it up casually then ask
 

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juat say "youwannagoformalwithme" making sure you leave out the spaces, he's bound to say yes, and if you leave out the spaces, well, he might say nyes then too
 

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Yeah, best way is when you see him just be like "hey can I talk to you for a sec :) "
and then when's he's like "lol k what"
you say "suck her tits" or "come formal, free booze"
 

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YOU: "hey come formal with me?"
HIM:"never."
YOU:" Ok, ill see you at 7"

he'll come around.
 

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srs, just go upto your friend, "hey davo, how are you today?" "i've got my formal coming up in a few weeks, i was wondering if you would like to come along with me?"

unless you're really fat & ugly, theres a 95% chance the guy is gonna say yes...

as per above, dont make a big deal about it,
 

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Well... I asked over MSN. I was just talking about my dress and I was like "do you own a suit?"
"Yes."
"Wanna come with me?"
"For sure."
We're in a complicated relationship, so anything different would have been weird. I had no idea if the guy would say yes or no. We were just a drunken hook-up and he's only in year 10. So anything is possible, go for it!

But if the guy you're asking is traditional, I suggest doing it in person. As has been said, just keep it casual :). Perhaps start by talking about the venue or something about the formal like that, and then just ask him. Good luck!
 
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ooooh i love Muse too :)
haha and good luck with it, I'm sure it will be fine. Just relax. :tongue:
 

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uhh, u could get a friend to ask for you... but better if u go face to face, then its harder for him to say no
 

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just say your friends dared you to ask or something...

nah seriously just ask him, worst case scenario he says no, thinks you're a freak, never talks to you again, moves countries, changes his name, and you lose the one true love of your life :p
kiddinggg, ask ask ask! :D
 

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ohk ohk i'll ask on monday or tuesday then...just hope i dont chicken out lol or totally mess up n make myself look like an idiot
but thanks to everyone who helped!!
 

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