Is Having A Boyfriend In High School Really Necessary? (1 Viewer)

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So, everyone at my school are getting boyfriends, and you know, they are always being cute and everything.
People now think that because I don't have a boyfriend, that I am ugly or not attractive :/

The thing is that I go to an all girl's schol, so meeting guys is really hard and yeah, i am starting to have low self-esteem ...

Please help! What should I do? And please, no rude comments :)

Thanks a bunch! :spin:
 

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It takes a while to find the right person. People in high school usually just pick the first person that says yes. You have the rest of life ahead of you, go enjoy it.
 

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If you don't have a boyfriend this basically means that you'll fail your HSC

In all seriousness, no, you don't need a boyfriend. The people you associate with sound pretty stupid though. Most guys in high school fit a few categories:
1) Pretty and typically male but incredibly stupid (so basically, the type you're after)
2) Not as pretty, smarter than your average bear and generally a better personailty (the friendzone kind)
3) Socially awkward asian/ethnic minority (lol)

Tell me if I'm wrong
 

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Most of the girls I know who had BF's during HSC got atar's a lot lower than what they should have gotten.
 

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there are numerous options, listed here in approximate order of preference:

1. Realize that self-esteem should come from within you, not from flaunting some boy. It's about becoming comfortable with who you are.
2. Hang out with your friends, their boyfriends and their boyfriends' friends. Hence meet the boyfriends' friends. Acquire boyfriend.
3. Say you are "focusing on your studies" or that your parents won't let you have a boyfriend. Works best if you are Asian or curry.
4. Shamelessly camwhore on the internet so that dozens of horny boys will post compliments in the hope of getting tits. Find e-boyfriend. Acquire false self esteem.
 

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If you don't have a boyfriend this basically means that you'll fail your HSC

In all seriousness, no, you don't need a boyfriend. The people you associate with sound pretty stupid though. Most guys in high school fit a few categories:
1) Pretty and typically male but incredibly stupid (so basically, the type you're after)
2) Not as pretty, smarter than your average bear and generally a better personailty (the friendzone kind)
3) Socially awkward asian/ethnic minority (lol)

Tell me if I'm wrong
Agreed.
 

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Having a boyfriend is never necessary. With a mind set like that, you're only opening yourself up to those bullshit relationships which only exist to get people talking.
 

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plus all her friends will swoon because he's a uni guy, this will give her greater social status and catapult her self esteem to truly arrogant levels

fund it.
 

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Yes, girls like older guys generally don't they?
 

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You can get your boyfriend to buy you shit every month and for your birthday/valentines/christmas/etc.
 

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lol i never had a boyfriend in highschool. boys at school were all disgusting anyway.
 

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