So... my 'friends' at uni... (1 Viewer)

[Bread_2_Toast]

are ignoring me all of a sudden. I dont know if im being paranoid or if theyre simply being bitchy

what should i do?
besides get new friends because i want to sort this out

im getting stressed out

thx


xx

 

[Azure]

Did you do/say anything that might throw them off side?

If you did absolutely nothing, it seems to me like they're using you/ganging up on you to become closer with each other.

 

[Bread_2_Toast]

Did you do/say anything that might throw them off side?

If you did absolutely nothing, it seems to me like they're using you/ganging up on you to become closer with each other.

im shy so i didnt talk much during my first year so maybe they thought i was being snobby but thats not true
if i talk to them directly about this it will be weird since they are being bitchy....

 

[Azure]

If you were being quiet then they probably don't know as much about you as they do about one another, and probably find it a little bit hard to talk with you? My advice, don't talk to them directly about it - it will be weird and uncomfortable. Just try and speak up around them a little bit more. That's all I can think of, sorry.

 

[Bread_2_Toast]

dont worry thats ok. at least you gave me some advice that makes sense =)
thank you!

xx

 

[fishfingerz]

Maybe u intimidate them. Are ur grades much higher than theirs? Cause this happens a lot in high school.

 

[meilz92]

wow sounds like my life post-HSC

itll ruin you. true story it happened to me.

xx

 

[Azure]

Jealous people are crap aren't they.

 

[Garygaz]

Did you stay in contact with them at all over the holidays? If not, well there's your answer.

 

[chewy123]

I know people who actively ignores other friends because they are 'quiet' or 'don't talk'. It is a psychology I am unable grasp. As Azure said I wouldn't directly confront them about it. Try to talk to them more but if they remain like that then I suppose finding new friends is the only way to go.

 

[Aquawhite]

are ignoring me all of a sudden. I dont know if im being paranoid or if theyre simply being bitchy

what should i do?
besides get new friends because i want to sort this out

im getting stressed out

thx


xx

My (old) mates, who I've been friends with for a long time, do this sometimes for absolutely no reason whatsoever... just to be arseholes I guess or to just exclude me for some reason. Usually they stop being retards and want to hang with me later than day or the following.

I'm sure they'll come around, if not, ask what their problem is.

 

[MysteryGenius]

are ignoring me all of a sudden. I dont know if im being paranoid or if theyre simply being bitchy

what should i do?
besides get new friends because i want to sort this out

im getting stressed out

thx


xx

punch em in the face and put em in their place



lol
but seriously, try talking to them some more, maybe they'll come around once they see that you're not a snob
hopefully it all works out for you though ^.^
if not, try expanding your circle of friends, that way you wont give them the impression that you're completely ditching them whilst giving you the opportunity to spend more time with a variety people who value and respect you and your opinions
it may be hard at first but give it a go at least

 

[Bread_2_Toast]

Maybe u intimidate them. Are ur grades much higher than theirs? Cause this happens a lot in high school.

last year i got Cs and Ds. some of my friends also got the same but a few failed a class or two so i dont know if that has something to do with it.....

wow sounds like my life post-HSC

itll ruin you. true story it happened to me.

xx

im sorry that happened to you =(

xx

Did you stay in contact with them at all over the holidays? If not, well there's your answer.

some yes, others no but only because they were on holidays or overseas

I know people who actively ignores other friends because they are 'quiet' or 'don't talk'. It is a psychology I am unable grasp. As Azure said I wouldn't directly confront them about it. Try to talk to them more but if they remain like that then I suppose finding new friends is the only way to go.

me neither. yea that may work =)

My (old) mates, who I've been friends with for a long time, do this sometimes for absolutely no reason whatsoever... just to be arseholes I guess or to just exclude me for some reason. Usually they stop being retards and want to hang with me later than day or the following.

I'm sure they'll come around, if not, ask what their problem is.

i dont get why people do that its so frustrating =(
yea i probably will next time i notice it happening. they werent so bad today

punch em in the face and put em in their place



lol
but seriously, try talking to them some more, maybe they'll come around once they see that you're not a snob
hopefully it all works out for you though ^.^
if not, try expanding your circle of friends, that way you wont give them the impression that you're completely ditching them whilst giving you the opportunity to spend more time with a variety people who value and respect you and your opinions
it may be hard at first but give it a go at least

lols
thank you for the advice =)