2026 HSC CHAT (11 Viewers)

[ellurbee]

Honestly I think it's just ur parent's mindset. Like first of all they need to know that the pressure and comparisons they are doing to u is just gonna hurt u even more in the long run and is counter productive. And also they need to know that year 11 doesn't count and it's ok cause most people willl make an academic comeback in year 11. People who do well in year 11 don't necessarily do well in year 12. Like us humans are not designed to work, study or be stressed 24/7 and we need breaks so that we can recharge and do better later on

DUDE I'VE BEEN TYRING TO TELL THAT TO THEM 4 AGESSSS BUT THEY DON'T SEEM TO CARE VERY MUCH- i am going to bring it up again though because there are lots of other girls who are also struggling- fingers crossed it works- i'm just waiting for at least 1 good exam result to break the news to them-

 

[Study to success]

DUDE I'VE BEEN TYRING TO TELL THAT TO THEM 4 AGESSSS BUT THEY DON'T SEEM TO CARE VERY MUCH- i am going to bring it up again though because there are lots of other girls who are also struggling- fingers crossed it works- i'm just waiting for at least 1 good exam result to break the news to them-

Maybe u can get someone else to explain it to them. Like even ur brother or maybe like a cousin or relative or even one of their close friends. That way maybe they'll actually listen and see the other side to things

 

[ellurbee]

Maybe u can get someone else to explain it to them. Like even ur brother or maybe like a cousin or relative or even one of their close friends. That way maybe they'll actually listen and see the other side to things

Hm maybe- i'll bribe my brother lmao but he's too tough to swallow his pride most of the time so we'll see.

 

[alphxreturns]

they're going to silently hate me for the next couple of days and constantly bring up how i should be trying harder and doing more- in short my holidays r gonna be shit when they find out.

if you're looking to have a good holiday and your parents are going to make it worse, try gradually defuse the situation by going out more (out of sight, out of mind), for example the library with friends or stay in your room. don't remind them about things that will escalate their emotions

 

[Study to success]

if you're looking to have a good holiday and your parents are going to make it worse, try gradually defuse the situation by going out more (out of sight, out of mind), for example the library with friends or stay in your room. don't remind them about things that will escalate their emotions

Yeah that's a good idea and personally I would like to do this but for me I feel like me constantly going out would make them more mad cause they would have to be constantly checking where I'd be going and would have to take me to these places

 

[ellurbee]

if you're looking to have a good holiday and your parents are going to make it worse, try gradually defuse the situation by going out more (out of sight, out of mind), for example the library with friends or stay in your room. don't remind them about things that will escalate their emotions

THAT'S THE PLANNNNNN
Already avoiding them- and since i was young i learnt how to avoid all topics that could possibly bring up any recollection of an event/ mistake so hopefully that wonderful life skill that developed through my childhood saves me until i get a decent mark.

 

[Study to success]

THAT'S THE PLANNNNNN
Already avoiding them- and since i was young i learnt how to avoid all topics that could possibly bring up any recollection of an event/ mistake so hopefully that wonderful life skill that developed through my childhood saves me until i get a decent mark.

omg real. Like I never tell them about my problems or anything negative cause it will always end up as a lecture of things I shouldn't do and why it's wrong, etc

 

[ellurbee]

omg real. Like I never tell them about my problems or anything negative cause it will always end up as a lecture of things I shouldn't do and why it's wrong, etc

That's so real though oms

 

[NotBamboo]

That's so real though oms

ya gotta face ur parents eventually even if they think school marks are everything
maybe its just ur mindset

start grinding ur subjects to get over the 80% mark, u can actually ask for help on this website right here

 

[Study to success]

omg real. Like I never tell them about my problems or anything negative cause it will always end up as a lecture of things I shouldn't do and why it's wrong, etc

no but actually like the other day I asked my mum whether or not she has tried malatang and it turned into a whole lecture about how I have to be careful with my allergies and I always have to ask the restaurant, etc. Like I literally asked a simple question that was just a yes or no question and it turned into a lecture

 

[NotBamboo]

no but actually like the other day I asked my mum whether or not she has tried malatang and it turned into a whole lecture about how I have to be careful with my allergies and I always have to ask the restaurant, etc. Like I literally asked a simple question that was just a yes or no question and it turned into a lecture

yeah life sucks like that
lectures is just part of parenting
just try to get through it by nodding, unless u really need to say something cus then theyll just tell u off more


p.s. be careful of ur allergies

 

[ellurbee]

ya gotta face ur parents eventually even if they think school marks are everything
maybe its just ur mindset

start grinding ur subjects to get over the 80% mark, u can actually ask for help on this website right here

Yea i know- usually it is my mindset however i am really struggling to get over that aspect and have been for years- so ya

 

[NotBamboo]

Yea i know- usually it is my mindset however i am really struggling to get over that aspect and have been for years- so ya

random question do u live near the T9

 

[ellurbee]

random question do u live near the T9

What's that is it like a mode of transport or something (GAH I KNOW THAT SOUNDS STUPID BUT IDK)

 

[m_avi]

What's that is it like a mode of transport or something (GAH I KNOW THAT SOUNDS STUPID BUT IDK)

The train lines

 

[NotBamboo]

What's that is it like a mode of transport or something (GAH I KNOW THAT SOUNDS STUPID BUT IDK)

train line

ur name
sounds
familiar

somehow
just need to make sure

 

[ellurbee]

train line

ur name
sounds
familiar

somehow
just need to make sure

My name?
Oh no it doesn't stop near my location-

 

[Study to success]

Yea i know- usually it is my mindset however i am really struggling to get over that aspect and have been for years- so ya

Real. Like I’ve been struggling with anxiety, low self esteem, depression since year 7 and even a bit in primary

 

[NotBamboo]

Real. Like I’ve been struggling with anxiety, low self esteem, depression since year 7 and even a bit in primary

i love how u can just hit like on the most depressing comments

 

[ellurbee]

Real. Like I’ve been struggling with anxiety, low self esteem, depression since year 7 and even a bit in primary

real x 2- i hope you're doing alright and it isn't getting too much for you-