grr!
This has bugged me for a while now, so I'm gonna vent.
Korn said:
A guy would have to be pretty gay to want to go someone anal style, shit i can think of better places to stick my dick in a chick
These comments are so common from the guys here on BOS (I'm not singling you out, Korn).
Guys, get this: Once upon a time it was a
manly thing to do to take other guys (young boys, specifically)/be taken up the ass. Sex with women was
solely for procreative purposes.
So, explain to me why anal play is a 'gay' thing to do, or, why it has been relegated as something only to be practised by 'gays'?
Guys, Stop letting your 'manliness' get in the way, and think about it with an open mind for a second: it's not a threat to your masculinity, you're being blinded by the content of all those high school insults that were thrown about.
No, it's understood that its not your taste, but it is for some others: many straight couples (but not all, obviously) engage in it and enjoy it. So do some (but not all) gay couples. Why is only the latter acknowledged?
Calling it 'gay' is like criticising drugs without ever really trying them: how, in any shape or form, can you claim to know what you're talking about without having the experience to back it up?