abusive relationships (2 Viewers)

[Makro]

M8 that's wat got us in this situation

Empathy and compassion got us in to domestic violence? I'd say equality between men and women have increased slightly over the ages.

 

[Raix]

People that say that women that stay are idiots, I think don't know what they're talking about. Sure, in theory you would walk out. But I can imagine that if you're being abused, controlled, it can get to the point where you think you can't get out.
Fear can be pretty powerful.

 

[Graney]

bullshit

go to the police and get him locked up

so easy

 

[Makro]

What we're forgetting is that the girls that stay in these relationships still see the good in it. Now, 90% of the time this guy could be great and 10% of the time he could be abusive in everyway. When this happens, it's a bit of a mindfuck to an insecure girl, no?

But he could be great too, then what, Graney?

 

[Phoenix Fury]

great people + abuse = not great people

 

[Makro]

great people + abuse = not great people

However the point was. If someone was abusive 100% of the time, the other person would fuck right off. There's obviously a reason domestic violence exists and abused people stay in these relationships.

 

[Phoenix Fury]

Hmm, yeh, I would like to know why people do stay in such relationships.

 

[katie tully]

vannilla_latte, i've gotta be honest with you.

if i were a no hoper from cabramatta and i realised i was going to wake up next to your fat, nagging ass every day, i'd probably belt you with a copper pipe on a regular basis too

 

[Graney]

well there we go makro

obviously these women are

- too dumb
- too lazy
- too shit

to do anything about their circumstances and tbh therefore deserve it

 

[Makro]

Emotional/psychological issues count as what? all 3? People need help, these support bodies are there, but how many people check themselves into rehab? People need others. To call them weak is like saying a person going through physical rehab with help is also weak.

 

[vannilla_latte]

vannilla_latte, i've gotta be honest with you.

if i were a no hoper from cabramatta and i realised i was going to wake up next to your fat, nagging ass every day, i'd probably belt you with a copper pipe on a regular basis too

katie tully, thanks for being honest with me.

but id like to correct you.

i am not the one in an abusive relationship. no one is "belting" me at all.

and thankyou for your concern that you think i am fat. i will take this into consideration the next time i look in a mirror.