giggsy013
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I find it to be a serious point. Although I would say I am the opposite to you... I am the guy who is a good friend (maybe not best friend, but pretty close) to a girl who has a boyfriend who she has been going out with for a few months, but I have been her friend for much longer than that and we were good friends even before she started going out with him. I've met the guy once and he seemed quite happy to meet me as I guess she has told him there is nothing going on between me and her, and she has made that perfectly clear.
It is just a matter of trust, and if she has known the guy for a lot longer than you, then it is natural for her to spend a fair bit of time with him, especially as you said he has been overseas for a while.
If you can't trust her, leave her, but make sure you give a perfectly good reason first.
Alternatively, talk to her. Let her know your concerns and that you care who she spends time with and that you want to be the one spending the most time with her. Turn it back on her and make yourself look like the loving boyfriend that she hoped for.
It is just a matter of trust, and if she has known the guy for a lot longer than you, then it is natural for her to spend a fair bit of time with him, especially as you said he has been overseas for a while.
If you can't trust her, leave her, but make sure you give a perfectly good reason first.
Alternatively, talk to her. Let her know your concerns and that you care who she spends time with and that you want to be the one spending the most time with her. Turn it back on her and make yourself look like the loving boyfriend that she hoped for.