Clingy... (3 Viewers)

[cfair]

Yeah, if he likes you he won't do nothing, unless he is really shy or something.

 

[iamsickofyear12]

There is no such thing as a nice guy who will just be in a non-serious hook up relationship.

They don't exist.

They do exist.

 

[Skeeta]

best cure for being clingy is to find someone clingier than you are. Will set yourself straight in no time.

 

[hiphophooray123]

my mum is pretty clingy, she loves me heaps, what a bitch, im gonna get an AVO against her

 

[ellen.louise]

darling, you ARE clingy and there's no use fighting it

 

[umop 3pisdn]

best cure for being clingy is to find someone clingier than you are. Will set yourself straight in no time.

But unless there are infinitely many people, then there must be a clingiest person. What's the cure for him and what do I do if it's me?

 

[ellen.louise]

He's on a plan.

And as I said it was just the usual, nothing out of the ordinary was said.

We are really close friends as well so I am finding it really strange.

Last time we hooked up was a couple of years ago and he initiated and instigated it, and then did the exact same thing.

There you have it. You are seeing this from the wrong perspective.

He probably just got sick of texting you back constantly about NOTHING.

So i'm thinking, if you said something out of the ordinary like "I'm pregnant with your baby" or "My mummy just died" and no reply for AGES, you're in trouble.

 

[ellen.louise]

But unless there are infinitely many people, then there must be a clingiest person. What's the cure for him and what do I do if it's me?

I love you anyways, baby.

 

[TaEkWoNdObArBiE]

This thread is clearly null and void anyways.

He messaged back. No stress. No worries.

The end.

 

[Enteebee]

This thread is clearly null and void anyways.

He messaged back. No stress. No worries.

The end.

cool.

hey what's your number?

 

[Gilbert1]

3) Do invite me to do something if that's what you want. When girls do that "but he has to ask ME out" crap it's fucking retarded.

That is one thing that really pisses me off aswell

 

[TaEkWoNdObArBiE]

cool.

hey what's your number?

What?

 

[Enteebee]

What?

:wave:

 

[Riet]

You're an idiot.

There is no such thing as a nice guy who will just be in a non-serious hook up relationship.

They don't exist.

Bullshit, we just feel really guilty about it.

 

[Tulipa]

Bullshit, we just feel really guilty about it.

So why do it?

Plus, I've never encountered one of them cause it's very difficult to be "nice" and fucking someone for fun.

 

[Riet]

So why do it?

Plus, I've never encountered one of them cause it's very difficult to be "nice" and fucking someone for fun.

Because it's fun? Alcohol sorta kills inhibitions too.

 

[Enteebee]

So why do it?

Plus, I've never encountered one of them cause it's very difficult to be "nice" and fucking someone for fun.

Are you saying to be nice you have to sit around and not have sex with anyone until you find someone you love?

 

[Riet]

Are you saying to be nice you have to sit around and not have sex with anyone until you find someone you love?

Exactly, you can have sex with someone without being manipulative and without false pretenses.

 

[TaEkWoNdObArBiE]

I guess, to have sex with somebody without manipulation and false pretences means that both parties have to know exactly where they stand and what will happen after.

That is kind of hard though, because wouldn't sex change things?

 

[Riet]

I guess, to have sex with somebody without manipulation and false pretences means that both parties have to know exactly where they stand and what will happen after.

That is kind of hard though, because wouldn't sex change things?

Precisely. It doesn't really work but that doesn't mean you can't have sex with a nice guy, simply because you're both physically attracted to each other. It can definitely be weird afterwards if you aren't on the same page. That's where the guilt can come from.