ash7614
New Member
i think you should go **** yourself and learn to shut your mouth about something you clearly know nothing about..
you say you don't know what it's like to feel depressed??
well good for you.. not everyone has that luxury..
i'm not justifying suicide but it was a decision that lily made (no matter how much it killed me to lose her) and it's certainly not your place to pass judgement..
there are never any logical reasons why people commit suicide..
it's a psycological problem..
yes people cope with with many different issues everyday and this whole chemical balance thing is a crock of sh*t but every single person as a different threshold..
no one knows why lily did what she did..
you have no idea what was going through her head..
you couldn't possibly imagine.. no one could.. even if she told them..
there's no escape from your own mind and lily's mind was clearly no longer a place she wanted to be prisonor of..
and yes you're correct in the fact that she may not have been depressed.. there are many other diagnosis' like skitzophrenia etc.. but there would definately have to be something not right in your head to want to kill youself..
look i agree in the fact that there is never a good enough reason to kill yourself but in the mind of someone who is suicidal (which you couldn't possibly understand because you have never been) things are a little different..
take a step back and consider just for one moment that she obviously was miserable enough to want to end her own life..
you must know what it's like to be sad.. well imagine being so sad to the point that you dont want to deal with it anymore.. that it's been going on for so long that you feel death is your only option..
i'm not saying death is the only option but just TRY and put it into perspective for someone else's not so stubbon point of view..
lily was a beautiful soul.. but she clearly had problems so deep that no one could have ever forseen..
she never showed signs of being depressed.. never ever being upset about anything.. to me thats not normal.. it's not normal to never be upset..
you don't have to be sympathetic..
and no one has to give you any of these 'logical' answers you ask for..
there is nothing logical about what happened..
you say you don't know what it's like to feel depressed??
well good for you.. not everyone has that luxury..
i'm not justifying suicide but it was a decision that lily made (no matter how much it killed me to lose her) and it's certainly not your place to pass judgement..
there are never any logical reasons why people commit suicide..
it's a psycological problem..
yes people cope with with many different issues everyday and this whole chemical balance thing is a crock of sh*t but every single person as a different threshold..
no one knows why lily did what she did..
you have no idea what was going through her head..
you couldn't possibly imagine.. no one could.. even if she told them..
there's no escape from your own mind and lily's mind was clearly no longer a place she wanted to be prisonor of..
and yes you're correct in the fact that she may not have been depressed.. there are many other diagnosis' like skitzophrenia etc.. but there would definately have to be something not right in your head to want to kill youself..
look i agree in the fact that there is never a good enough reason to kill yourself but in the mind of someone who is suicidal (which you couldn't possibly understand because you have never been) things are a little different..
take a step back and consider just for one moment that she obviously was miserable enough to want to end her own life..
you must know what it's like to be sad.. well imagine being so sad to the point that you dont want to deal with it anymore.. that it's been going on for so long that you feel death is your only option..
i'm not saying death is the only option but just TRY and put it into perspective for someone else's not so stubbon point of view..
lily was a beautiful soul.. but she clearly had problems so deep that no one could have ever forseen..
she never showed signs of being depressed.. never ever being upset about anything.. to me thats not normal.. it's not normal to never be upset..
you don't have to be sympathetic..
and no one has to give you any of these 'logical' answers you ask for..
there is nothing logical about what happened..