Difficulty getting a "shy" guy's attention. (1 Viewer)

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tres bien said:
Ugh, I couldn't think of a thread title.

There's a guy I love
-who all chicks love,
-who actually fits the description of the kind of guy I want
-who I discover *could* be a major player and loves to flirt with chicks but sometimes gets embarrassed/shy at trying to pick up so he isn't that much of a player,
and I really want him, but I don't think I know him well enough to tell him that he can pick me up anytime (;)) and that I want him so bad. I don't think he likes me in that way, but guys are sometimes difficult to read and it could be that he doesn't want to hurt me so he doesn't flirt with me or talk to me often. Maybe he feels shy around me. So, what do I do in such a situation? Should I just try to flirt with him and try to get a response from him? It's difficult because he is always surrounded by friends (it's been ages since I've seen him alone).


(NB: This isn't me, it's a friend of mine who is going through this. It just sounds easier to say "I".)

So, help her?
its cus ur ugly
 

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well, that dumb whore just thought he could be talked to at a party. maye he doesn't get invited to parties (more specifically at one which both parties are present). im shy, i dont get invited to parties, but ugliness accounts for that.
 

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Pierotte said:
its cus ur ugly
Woah dudes, thats a bit harsh........but yeh id say thats the most likely thing. Unless your just a slut and he's at least a bit respectable. In other words, PUT ON SOME CLOTHES!

By the way, if your not a slut, just ignore all that:)
 

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kathelle said:
lol. That dumb whore is one of my best mates........


Hook Up?
pfft. no.

gangels said:
Woah dudes, thats a bit harsh........but yeh id say thats the most likely thing. Unless your just a slut and he's at least a bit respectable. In other words, PUT ON SOME CLOTHES!

By the way, if your not a slut, just ignore all that
lol.
 

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I think if he's not shy and he knows you like him, but he doesn't do anything, then he's not interested.

But if he is shy, and does like you, he might not be sure you like him. So you should flash him and then see what he says.
 

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kathelle said:
Never Ever. :(
A few questions that I need to know
how you could ever hurt me so
I need to know what I've done wrong
and how long it's been going on
Was it that I never paid enough attention?
Or did I not give enough affection?
Not only will your answers keep me sane
but I'll know never to make the same mistake again
You can tell me to my face or even on the phone
You can write it in a letter, either way, I have to know
Did I never treat you right?
Did I always start the fight?
Either way, I'm going out of my mind
all the answers to my questions
I have to find

My head's spinning
Boy, I'm in a daze
I feel isolated
Don't wanna communicate

I'll take a shower, I will scour
I will rub
To find peace of mind
The happy mind I once owned, yeah

Vexing vocabulary runs right through me
The alphabet runs right from A to Z
Conversations, hesitations in my mind
You got my conscience asking questions that I can't find

I'm not crazy
I'm sure I ain't done nothing wrong, no
I'm just waiting
'Cause I heard that this feeling
won't last that long

Never ever have I ever felt so low
When you gonna take me out of this black hole?
Never ever have I ever felt so sad
The way I'm feeling yeah, you got me feeling really bad

Never ever have I had to find
I've had to dig away to find my own peace of mind
I've Never ever had my conscience to fight
The way I'm feeling, yeah, I just don't feel right

I'll keep searching
Deep within my soul
For all the answers
Don't wanna hurt no more

I need peace, got to feel at ease
Need to be.
Free from pain - going insane
My heart aches, yeah

Sometimes vocabulary runs right through my head
The alphabet runs right from A to Z
Conversations, hesitations in my mind
You got my conscience asking questions that I can't find

I'm not crazy,
I'm sure I ain't done nothing wrong
I'm just waiting
'Cause I heard that this feeling won't last that long

Never ever have I ever felt so low
When ya gonna take me out of this black hole?
Never ever have I ever felt so sad
The way I'm feeling yeah, you got me feeling really bad

Never ever have I had to find
I've had to dig away to find my own peace of mind
I've Never ever had my conscience to fight
The way I'm feeling, yeah, I just don't feel right x4

You can tell me to my face,
You can tell me on the phone,
Uh, You can write it in a letter, babe
'Cause I really need to know

You can tell me to my face
You can tell me on the phone
Uh, You can write it in a letter, babe
'Cause I really need to know

You can write it in a letter, babe
You can write it in a letter, babe
 

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sounds like this guy i used to work with...and dated

he turned out to be an arsehole.
comeplete arsehole.

so yeh...

maybe its best he doesnt know...

who knows.

dont take my crappy advice.

i suck at it.
 

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AnataDaiteyo said:
sounds like this guy i used to work with...and dated

he turned out to be an arsehole.
comeplete arsehole.

so yeh...

maybe its best he doesnt know...

who knows.

dont take my crappy advice.

i suck at it.
What type of work was it? It might be meeeee. lol jks I aint an arse and definately not a hole.
 

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Yeah thats really gunna work.. Actually it just might . hmmnn
 

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