Well here's some references for you, in no particular order and a VERY small smattering of what's in there, of which ALL of this was demanded by your loving and compassionate god:
1 Samuel 15:3 (genocide), Exodus 11:1-12:36 (genocide), 1 Samuel 6 (genocide), 1 Samuel 25 (general smiting), Numbers 25:16-17 (genocide, rape, more genocide, human sacrifice), 2 Kings 2:23-24 (massacre of children), Judges 11:30-40 (human sacrifice), 2 Samuel 21:1-14 (human sacrifice), Leviticus 27:28-29 (human sacrifice), Judges 3:8/3:14/4:2-3/6:1/13:1 (slavery), Exodus 21 (beating of slaves), Leviticus 21:19-23 (discrimination against the disabled and torture/death thereof), Isiah 3:17 (victimisation/molestation of women).
And that's just (mostly) the Old Testament. Dare I go on?