Does the age gap matter? (1 Viewer)

[Old_Sk3wl]

age means nothing - what matters is maturity

sometimes ppl use age as an "indicator" for a number of things based on the presumption that age brings experience/wisdom and etc.....

some real words of wisdom here...

 

[cHe^gUeVaRa]

age means nothing - what matters is maturity

sometimes ppl use age as an "indicator" for a number of things based on the presumption that age brings experience/wisdom and etc.....

thats right, me and my ex were at the same level. age didnt matter to us, it was as if we were the same age when we went out or did anything

the most of an age gap between me and an ex was 3 yrs and even then age didnt matter either

 

[Camu]

haha seriously your bf doesn't love you. he's just a shit cunt that cant get chicks his own age. you're being used because you probably have low self esteem. i am correct

 

[cHe^gUeVaRa]

haha seriously your bf doesn't love you. he's just a shit cunt that cant get chicks his own age. you're being used because you probably have low self esteem. i am correct

OWCH.. bit harsh dont ya think mate...

 

[Camu]

c'mon man it's irresponsible to say "yeah the age gap is a but much for me, but if you're ok with it, kewlz!!!! ^_^"

i have to be realistic. the sooner she realises this the better. every girl in this situation thinks they're the exception, they're not. think logically folks

 

[kelboo]

Camu i take it that your bf or gf or prostitute or whatever is born on exactly the same day as you are? Get real.
I'm not talking age as "Oh fuck I think I'm going to get hurt" because 7 months is a long time for a short fling don't you think? It's worked fucking perfectly so far thank you very much.
And also i take it that you are nowhere near the age 20 mark, let alone 25+. Do you know how i know? Aside from the general remarks, your incinuation that 27 year olds want to "use and abuse" girls made me laugh till i cried. HELLO all either of us is after is a lasting, absolutely blissfully perfect relationship... him moreso because he has been hurt before, and is over the "girlfriend" bullshit in general. Me? I'm sick of not being cared about that much, i hate the idea of not knowing who i'll be with in a year from now. Hence the older guy who DOESN'T want the short affair kinda shit.

We own 2 businesses together, are building a house together and have a kitten to boot-- all these things = a long long relationship.

Obviously you also thrive on others' misery ... too bad for you my life is perfect... shit happens hey?

 

[kelboo]

Camu my bf is wanting to talk to you... pm me your mob no, cos he'd just love a chat.

Sorry for ripping into you, but i don't take any of it back, you fucking deserve it

 

[belly_moo]

Just curious to know bout this...
I've been living with my bf for 7 months now, and in 2 wks we're moving back to my parents house, together.
My parents didn't ask about his age, but i'm 18 next week and he's 27.
Do you think this is too much of a difference, and how do i go about bringing it up with te folks??

And what is the difference between all of ur ages in here? I have a feeling i'm a little above the average in here!!

Cheers

Aaliyah - Age Ain't Nothin' But a Number

as for trying to bring it up in a convo with your parents.. well actually i cant really say much i havent been in your position before =\ but i can probably suggest that you guys just sit down over toast n tea n just slowly bring it up in a convo?!.. eg "oh yeah.. my bf's birthday is in ....."
"how old is he turning?"
"oh just.. 28"

OR.. i guess you could just talk to your mum / dad [whoever you feel closer to or more comfortable talking with] and have a serious convo about it.. i dunno.. i reckon that if you show how serious you are about you and your bf then your parents would see your POV n understand

bah.. but then again.. i guess it depends on how strict your parents may be.. hehe my mum would so cane me if i had a bf but if your parents are strict then i guess you could wait a little while longer.. time is all it takes but then again that'd be procrastinating.. anyways.. GL :uhhuh:

[damn this is a long post =S ]

 

[kelboo]

Maybe after my boyfriend makes his 1st million i'll tell them, it will most likely be next year! I'm probs gonna buy mum & dad a car for xmas, that should make things easier.
How slack was what camu said?! I posted this thread for advice. I don't bag him out for his choices, i don't even know the guy (guy? don't even know that much!)!
Thx for what u said tho babe, helped heaps

any1 else think camu was wrong to say what he said on the last page?

 

[gronkboyslim]

yo bitch. if youre so sure it doesnt matter. why the fuck yo posting on the forum does age gap matter?

yes it fucking does. bet your bfs a fat cunt, you are too.

 

[Camu]

Me? I'm sick of not being cared about that much

hahahaha i knew you had low self esteem.

girls like you are the only way losers like your bf can get laid. you mentioned he was 'over the girlfriend bs'. hahaha if you choose to believe that. more like he's 'over' getting no play from girls his age. this is probably due to lack of social skills and/or bad looks.

luckily for him tho found a 17 year old misfit with low self esteem so finally he can get some. there's a reason why relationships like yours aren't socially acceptable. your parents will be ashamed of you and the rest of society is disgusted.

glad to see you're happy with your jerry springer relationship tho.

 

[kelboo]

Ha. funny you should say that.
I am a model you fucking moron.
And Camu it's funny you should say low self esteem... if u knew who i was you'd be admiring my confidence and sense of humour, dearest
and read what i wrote above *shakes head*
and why abuse people you don't know? Not the most fantastic way to make friends now is it?

 

[kelboo]

my boyfriend wants your number right now
I'd pm you but you're too scared to recieve them
So...

 

[Camu]

hahaha how about you give me the white knights phone number? i'd give you mine but i figure the type of social failure that is pushing 30 and going out with a girl that isn't old enough to drink is the type of shit cunt that would prank me at 3 in the morning.

so you're a model huh? hahahahaha cmon man i know this is the internet but cool it with the fantasies.

i was trying to be friendly in my first post. i was just telling you the truth, but why would you take my kindness as a weakness.

 

[gronkboyslim]

your bf will probably give him business tips and how to pick up some young pussay.

 

[Nick]

my boyfriend wants your number right now
I'd pm you but you're too scared to recieve them
So...

is he going to bash camu up? thats the sort of maturity you only get with a 27 year old i guess

you realise you did ask for peoples opinions

 

[SuGa BunI =D]

big age gap.. ahh not sure if i cn hand it... =l

then again, if his brat pitt or george cloony i'l jump in for sure

 

[junibjp]

Its not to do with age. Its about maturity. If two people are at the same maturity level, then why not?

 

[breaking]

but i kinda think, wats wrong with a guy who, at 27 or watever age, needs to be with some who's 10 years or so younger?

me too......

 

[PhoenixBoy]

wtf?? u ppl r so wrong.