Attraction isn't a choice so if it fails, oh well you gained a little more strength and you move past it
What is the worse she can do? Abuse you for beginning conversation? If so, then fuck her right off. It's your reality dude, and you need to let her know that. Approach anxiety is the hardest thing to overcome; you really just need to start speaking more to any females. Hang with female friends more if need be the case. But whatever you do, just act yourself when you’re around this girl. Don't say anything outrageously sexual/stupid/talk too fast, be succinct, slow down your movements etc, straighten your posture, and overall just tell your mind that you are in a comfortable place.
I know it is hard, we are wired that way through evolution, as in ancient times, approaching the wrong woman in a small community led to death. But yea the best advice overall- don’t beat yourself up over her. We have all been there and had "one-itis". It is detrimental and counter-productive. The attraction will build if she sees that you are interesting, independent and not reliant on her immediate presence in your life. If after talking to her for like an hour, you push her to take your number or ask her out, tell her repetitively she is beautiful, she will flee. You must build rapport and comfort and learn to read her signals before advancing to the next level.
Remember at all times; you are wanted by women and you’re a leader of men.
