How should Bfs response to the tough questions by their GFs? (1 Viewer)

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As an Asian, I suprisingly have big boobs 34D/27/36 and butt..
However, i wasn't thinking towrad a negative way untill I found out so many pron and hot chicks pictures on his laptop!!!!!!
I know men are just natural born horny creature, but i still can't get over the fact that he still attracted to some other girls out there.
 

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choc-chip said:
As an Asian, I suprisingly have big boobs 34D/27/36 and butt..
However, i wasn't thinking towrad a negative way untill I found out so many pron and hot chicks pictures on his laptop!!!!!!
I know men are just natural born horny creature, but i still can't get over the fact that he still attracted to some other girls out there.
Of course he is still going to find other girls attractive. Just because you have a girlfriend (regardless of how attractive she is) does not mean you therefore find all other people unattractive.
 

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It might hurt to know that he finds other girls attractive, but it's only natural. It would be unrealistic to believe that you are the only good-looking female in his eyes.

The important thing is that he won't leave you for them. Physical attraction alone isn't enough to break a proper relationship. If the women he checks out are celebrities, then you have even less to worry about.
 

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hYperTrOphY said:
Of course he is still going to find other girls attractive. Just because you have a girlfriend (regardless of how attractive she is) does not mean you therefore find all other people unattractive.
Good point there

But i guess young kids are born to be superficial...It gets better when they grow older
 

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choc-chip said:
As an Asian, I suprisingly have big boobs 34D/27/36 and butt..
However, i wasn't thinking towrad a negative way untill I found out so many pron and hot chicks pictures on his laptop!!!!!!
I know men are just natural born horny creature, but i still can't get over the fact that he still attracted to some other girls out there.
If you have a problem with your partner watching porn i suggest you become a lesbian.
 

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wow... so many people just like me!! i envy those gorgeous skinny girls with big boobs too
 

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you girls are ugly skinny and you look like shit you bitches! there happy? wanted some badmouthing bout yer body huh? get over it! there always guys even ur bfs who likes other girls you should be lucky you have bf and he's is "hot" in ur point of view i presume who cares bout those vogue girls without the make up and clothes theyre ugly as shit! i used to become jealous of those bball asians with their "mad bbal skills" and hot gfs but since ive picked up my skateboard it taught me to get over it and live life! ive learned not to judge others and myself and shit like that! regardless whether you skate or not you should get over it and love the way you are choc-ship stop whining, ur pic (i presume its you) you are hot as hell and i doubt ur figure is pretty damn hot too! girls just be happy, please we need less emo girls out there!!
 

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choc-chip said:
As an Asian, I suprisingly have big boobs 34D/27/36 and butt..
However, i wasn't thinking towrad a negative way untill I found out so many pron and hot chicks pictures on his laptop!!!!!!
I know men are just natural born horny creature, but i still can't get over the fact that he still attracted to some other girls out there.


Every guy has a dream body we love,and thats what pornstars have.We get where you mean its cheating to think about a pornstar,but its our mind we can dream about anything we want none of your business

just take it this way

porn=dream body

girlfriend=personality the dude wants +the body that aint too skanky............etc
 

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Dreamerish*~ said:
It might hurt to know that he finds other girls attractive, but it's only natural. It would be unrealistic to believe that you are the only good-looking female in his eyes.

The important thing is that he won't leave you for them. Physical attraction alone isn't enough to break a proper relationship. If the women he checks out are celebrities, then you have even less to worry about.
You always have the best point in any thread here..
I tried to divert my attention to checking out hot guys but it just doesn't work..
One of my guy friend doubt if I'm lesbian..Hehe..
 

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to the girl that posted this.. maybe you have some form of anorexia... cause you sound like a twig to me
 

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Studynoob has a point.

Look at last month's Cosmo. The editor had photos of herself taken without make-up and lightining, then with slight make-up, professional lighting and finally computer retouching. There's a huge difference.

So there you go. It's silly to compare yourself to magazine girls. If they shoved you in there you'd probably look just as good.
 

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SweetSeasons said:
to the girl that posted this.. maybe you have some form of anorexia... cause you sound like a twig to me
I wish i have
 

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SweetSeasons said:
to the girl that posted this.. maybe you have some form of anorexia... cause you sound like a twig to me
uh no

she actually sounds like she has a nice body.

and the worst thing you can do is actually voice your concerns to your boyfriend, you make him feel uncomfortable and i know that the repetition actually does piss them off. do it to your girlfriends :uhhuh: thats what they're there for. anyways if your guy thought some other girl was hotter than you, he'd be with her not you.
 

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hYperTrOphY said:
I'm still waiting for photos.. :)
yeah hurry it up will ya im waiting too! oh and bring some photos of ur older sister in the shower! :)
 

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iambored said:
Stop thinking about negatives and focus on positives!! Far out, you can't have everything. Some people have nothing, some people have everything taken away from them in a second - some people can't walk, can't see - please try and realise that since you have the basics, you're one of the luckiest people alive. I'm sure you all have more than the basics - if your bfs think you're beautiful so you must be. It doesn't matter what anyone but him thinks anyway!

Everything could be taken away in an instant and you would do anything to have back what you have now, so just enjoy it and be thankful while it lasts.

That said, it's normal to have days when you are unhappy with yourself, just don't let it be everyday, slowly make changes so you can be more positive (I'm in a 'you WON'T get me down' mood, incase you can't tell)
wasnt my post positive enough? ive used my best english skills to get these smartass girls to understand me! damn i wish most people understood what i was trying to point out, skaters only know shit what im saying (bad vocab with lots and lots of swearing lol)
 

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hey guys think about image to... i love the compliments girls give, single now, but yeah i also compared myself to my ex's ex's..!
i know alot of guys who absolutely get depressed about being fat or not in shape like some guys, some guys i know go to the gym 6 days a week and just dont lose weight and it sux watching them try so hard for something i couldnt lose if i tried. (thin)
and me and my friends do compare ourselves to other guys when we see them, but it's more about muscles than weight... obviously
 

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danieljarvis said:
hey guys think about image to... i love the compliments girls give, single now, but yeah i also compared myself to my ex's ex's..!
i know alot of guys who absolutely get depressed about being fat or not in shape like some guys, some guys i know go to the gym 6 days a week and just dont lose weight and it sux watching them try so hard for something i couldnt lose if i tried. (thin)
and me and my friends do compare ourselves to other guys when we see them, but it's more about muscles than weight... obviously
then exercise simple as that you wuss!
 

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studynoob said:
then exercise simple as that you wuss!
oh no, i meant i am thin and couldnt lose being that if i tried.... meaning no matter what i eat i always stay thin. but then again i do exercise most days but thats just to keep my vanity
 

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