haHA shadow ur too funny. ~in all srsness tho i was kidding bout grinding if u have no frends~. 4realzies tho, it made me feel like a pLaYA. HSCAREA, i will endeavour to tlk to a girl in my class tomorrow, appropriating dat playa feel from club. i do think however, that confidence in both our situations is vital, ie we need to neglect that lingering possibilty, and fear of the possibilty of rejection, best way i think to do this would be to realize that (depending on the situation) nothing really bad can happen, the following are proposed scenarios-
1. REJECTED, however you will never see the person again, so may as well give it a go, and walk away with ur head held high if rejected (if at club/random meet)
2. SEMI_REJECTED and isnt that into you, you will be kept as a friend (if meeting her is a recurring event, this is also assuming that ur not repulsive and or obnoxious)
3. much similar to number 2 is that if ur a bad communicator, she will most probably still keep you as a friend, but probably nothing more.
as such, that initial interaction can be, and for me, usually is quite overwhelming, however just like taking horrible tasting medicine, that nervousness or w/e (bad taste to continue analogy) is only momentary, and once u get the ball rolling ur on ur way to a new friend (good health if you're still following the medicine analogy)
once again, this is just advice.
as a side note, lifting weights helps boost confidence coz u get to be swole as fuk. so does a bit of alko/.