Problems with 'cumming' (1 Viewer)

[Vahl]

um, the other day i had an unusual experience: i met a really nice [person] who i liked, but i couldn't cum, or take pleasure - very unusual. That night I went out with two older [persons] to a movie where i proceeded to get felt up all night, to my distaste. I didn't like the [persons] but I managed to cum and enjoy myself several times that night.

Why the hell did this happen, especially considering that now the nice [person] i met is unsure of me in that they think i don't like them?

 

[Skeeta]

you were nervous/drunk/high?

 

[Vahl]

you were nervous/drunk/high?

Yeah i was nervous, because i liked him, but it's not like me for that to have an effect.

 

[Skeeta]

nervousness definitely can have a major effect. If you had no problems with the two (people) later on. then i dont think you have a broken penii or anything

 

[Vahl]

nervousness definitely can have a major effect. If you had no problems with the two (people) later on. then i dont think you have a broken penii or anything

hehe well that is a relief. I was really hoping some of the psych students could give me an insight into it though. It freaked me out. :s

 

[Skeeta]

maybe you're in luuuuuurve

 

[Vahl]

maybe you're in luuuuuurve

lol who knows - but if that was the case i'd be in love with almost everybody

 

[hiphophooray123]

fag

 

[Justin]

yeh nervousness affects me majorly.

 

[Vahl]

fag

dick

 

[vanush]

Gayness is... amazing.

 

[Optophobia]

see a dr if its worrying you

oh yeh im sure he's going to go to a doctor about that.

 

[alby]

um, the other day i had an unusual experience: i met a really nice [person] who i liked, but i couldn't cum, or take pleasure - very unusual. That night I went out with two older [persons] to a movie where i proceeded to get felt up all night, to my distaste. I didn't like the [persons] but I managed to cum and enjoy myself several times that night.

Why the hell did this happen, especially considering that now the nice [person] i met is unsure of me in that they think i don't like them?

stage fright

 

[Vahl]

most people are mature enough to realise that thats what drs are there for - physical and mental issues

yes, itd be humiliating, but if its of a real concern itd be better to see a doctor about it and get everything checked out, would it not?

hmm yeah but it isn't a common thing. I was more just curious to see what the psych students thought/new about why it happened.

'stage fright' is probably correct but that doesn't explain the cause.

 

[Crestwood's_G]

fag

dont be homophobic....

 

[Vahl]

dont be homophobic....

Ooooooohhh i c he was being homophobic. I thought he was just being friendly....

 

[Trev]

Maybe the 'really nice' guy was just doing it wrong!

 

[Vahl]

Maybe the 'really nice' guy was just doing it wrong!

lol, maybe. but that has never screwed me up before

 

[dora_18]

Gayness is... amazing..

yes...yes it is...esp. guy on guy..yumm

 

[wrong_turn]

maybe you broke your penis when it got over-excited the first time and then it started leaking with the two girls...

to be serious though, i think it depends on how much you notice it and how much you wank and when you wank....

fuck i sound like some therapist...ask the gaybo hip