To the guys whinging about the 'jerks' etc.
Ever considered that it is YOU.
Take a step back and observe these 'jerks'- how do they behave? I can guarrantee that whilst a lot of them aren't intelligent, this lack of self-analysis often works in their favour. They are natural extraverts- they thrive off social interactions. I spent years hating them just like you; thinking its 'not fair' etc. Until I realised that you can compete with them, however with the added element of intelligence. You need to believe you are superior- show that you are in complete control of your reality at all times and the women will come to you as well. I mean, take a look around you? Why are these guys getting the girls? What do the girls really want?
Simpified, these guys are confident and self-assured they exert masculine energy and this is perceived by females. At our core, we are all raw animals and the 'approach' is critical- females have an instinctive scanning process for 'true' males and it is heavily reliant on 'meta-conversation'- the overall chemistry and spark we give off through body language, vocal tone and movement. Many of these jerks are the 'cocky-funny' personality, a combination of this and unpredictability builds a chase and keeps girls guessing. Playing the 'nice guy' or the 'friend' WILL NEVER get you a root. You simply become their puppet, a shoulder for support and nothing else. Why would they bother when they can control you? You've practically walked up and offered your balls on a platter.
