Single.. Who has never had a Girlfriend/boyfriend? (2 Viewers)
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bex you should talk to him bout that, she could of just been being a bitch... dont just throw it away..
me tho. im in the same posiiton with only ever really one proper realtionship... i prefer to flutter.. but i odnt think that opportunity for relationship has ever really come about neway, i just dont seem to attract relationship boys.. oh well i like being single. the (emotional) comfort u guys get from your boyfriends, i can get from my normal friends, and i think that the most important thing
EDIT: i wanna add more for bex, noone introduces themselves as hi im so n sos boyfriend, or if they do, they are odd people, you should really find out if she was just shit stirring you befroe u get really angry at this guy. if its true tho... im all for castration
me tho. im in the same posiiton with only ever really one proper realtionship... i prefer to flutter.. but i odnt think that opportunity for relationship has ever really come about neway, i just dont seem to attract relationship boys.. oh well i like being single. the (emotional) comfort u guys get from your boyfriends, i can get from my normal friends, and i think that the most important thing
EDIT: i wanna add more for bex, noone introduces themselves as hi im so n sos boyfriend, or if they do, they are odd people, you should really find out if she was just shit stirring you befroe u get really angry at this guy. if its true tho... im all for castration
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i'm in exactly the same position (but i'm not a guy. the only difference).
i've never had a relationship either and have way too high standards. i also am too shy to make the first move so i expect guys to make the first move.
i am wondering if anyone has been interested but never told the person they're interested in because they're both shy/want the other person to ask first? hehe. a funny thought.
AngelSG86
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I'm 18 and single. I've only ever had one boyfriend and been kissed twice. Does that make me a loser?
neeja
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only if you desperately want to be engaged and kissing non-stop.
if you do, then u r a loser, if you dont...i wouldnt worry about it
if you do, then u r a loser, if you dont...i wouldnt worry about it
margot
lalala...
no im the same, one relationship... single is good tho, u can do whatever u want and u dont have to worry bout cheating etc.
mack
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I thought i was in drought with the ladies until i started hitting some city nightclubs......Chicks hit on you left and right, seriously.
super katie
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I know exactly what you mean. Its fine being with friends and their boyfriends/girlfriends and i like to see my friends happy but yeah, sometimes it just kinda brings it all home that you dont actually have anyone.. which isnt so nicesteph@nie said:
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High standards also means that you will treat the girl good when you've actually find one to your liking, since that they are so rare to you. If i was a girl, i would rather feel like i'm the treasure of a relationship rather than i'm just a girlfriend of a "guy who can dump me any day and get a new one since that he has low standards"
But yes...high standards could drive girls away...i just realised when someone said that i was a guy who is extremely hard to please, and that the girl i will like will really be something...
I'm single, and to be honest it's a good life, but i also don't mind taking care of someone i love even if it means 4 hrs phone calls at night....
But waiting for the girl to make the first move is a bit of wishful thinking...since that most girls won't realli make the first move, and if they do make a move, it's normally quite a discreet one that you've probably missed by accident...so if you see someone you like, make the move...
But yes...high standards could drive girls away...i just realised when someone said that i was a guy who is extremely hard to please, and that the girl i will like will really be something...
I'm single, and to be honest it's a good life, but i also don't mind taking care of someone i love even if it means 4 hrs phone calls at night....
But waiting for the girl to make the first move is a bit of wishful thinking...since that most girls won't realli make the first move, and if they do make a move, it's normally quite a discreet one that you've probably missed by accident...so if you see someone you like, make the move...
thejosiekiller
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its hard sometimes, being single sucks. my relationships never last longer than 6 months- thats why im afraid to become involved when u realise if ur with some1 u initially care about- it wont last. afterwards becomes a bitter internal mindgame convincing urself to get out of the relationship for whatever reason
at times im a firm believer in the idea- it would be better sometime in the future (when ive changed, and maybe her as well)
also sometimes when ur feeling vulnerable its especially hard to be honest, funny, confident, romantic and have some money etc... all together. asking a girl out is one of many problems
and 4hr phone calls are great, but its annoying when u feel like u have to keep on talking when all ur doing is describing ordinary events in ur day and telling a few jokes. i hate talking to ppl on the phone- face to face is better.
at times im a firm believer in the idea- it would be better sometime in the future (when ive changed, and maybe her as well)
also sometimes when ur feeling vulnerable its especially hard to be honest, funny, confident, romantic and have some money etc... all together. asking a girl out is one of many problems
and 4hr phone calls are great, but its annoying when u feel like u have to keep on talking when all ur doing is describing ordinary events in ur day and telling a few jokes. i hate talking to ppl on the phone- face to face is better.
