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Staying a virgin until marriage (guys) (1 Viewer)

meilz92

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so if you met someone right, and lets say they previously had two long-term relationships, and thus two sexual partners
would you write that person off just because they arent a virgin or would you consider them for a relationship/marriage

pls answer my scenario
 

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could be worse i guess (like my italian friend who thinks girls who arent virgins are sluts yet will totally go for a manwhore who has a reputation for fucking around and not being able to stay in a relationship)
 
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i was raised this way as well but I dont think its essential to wait until marriage (I used to think this when i was maybe 14-15 and hadnt yet developed my own seperate opinions to those of my parents)
pretty much the same as me

my entire family is seriously christian

but i've developed my own opinions not limited by institutional thought
 

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what if it was just one previous relationship/sexual partner (cmon this is like 99.9% of guys who arent pathetic nerds)
 

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what if it was just one previous relationship/sexual partner (cmon this is like 99.9% of guys who arent pathetic nerds)
maybe but i actually have met guys who arent pathetic nerds who choose to wait
 

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I bet my life that thrillkiller is either italian, greek (worst nationality) or slavic.
 
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because they are delusional and brainwashed and think they will be smited if they don't wait
 

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also of all the people I know who wanted to wait until marriage, 90% of them ended up changing their minds.
 

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is there something wrong with having standards?
I accept that in today's society I can no longer dream about finding a virgin girl and marrying her - because 99.99999999% of chances say that the girl I end up with will not be a virgin anymore.

There is a difference between 'not a virgin' and 'slut', though. Like, if a girl expects to slut herself around and sleep with 20 guys and then suddenly expect a well-respecting, rich guy to love and care for her and take her seriously, then no that's not happening pretty much ever.
 

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ok listen,
no one has the right to judge other people about their decisions, if our friend here is against it because simply they have been brought up in an environment where they were told that it was right for them to wait until marriage. OBVIOUSLY it shows that u people who are against this person have been brought up getting told that it was NOTHING to you. MY virginity to me however means alot to me, its sacred, once its gone i can never get it back no matter how much i try. it shows my independence as a female proving that im not weak minded like most females and gave away something i couldnt get back simply because of my curiosity. so please. keep your comments to yourselves and if u dont have anything nice to say.... GET OFF :)
 

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