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well, all the guys i've been with have been of different nationality so that isn't an issue. Unless a guy is able to support himself, the type of job and education he has doesn't really matter. But right now i'm currently seeing a guy and, omg, he's so vain! It's the biggest turn off! Hmm, i don't know how to tell him...
 

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I have a low tolerance for:

- bad taste in music
- horrible accents
- an inability to spell certain words correctly
 

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Casmira said:
man i dont mind any music type even country i can stand, but emo music and forget it id snap. that music drives me insane
umm soo wat do you consider emo music?? any bands??

i just simply cant stand country music and oldies..
 
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i got no idea which bands are emo, i just hear the music and it makes me rage.
 

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I have little patience for guys who are shy and unsure of themselves and always look really awkward. Immediate turn off.
 

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people who are stubborn even when wrong

*ANGER!*
 

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Casmira said:
i got no idea which bands are emo, i just hear the music and it makes me rage.
mmm kk :confused: im assuming it's the used, mcr, silverstein?, taking back sunday, hawthorne heights, good charlotte?, etc

i <3 metal
 
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sorta msuic where people are depressed for stupid reasons emos need to grow a spine and get over it. worst thing is that emo music tends to move you or even grow your depression/sadness, i know this from personal experience.
 

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I was thinking of this today. Although i dont think religion is an incredibly superficial thing...it would possibly give me second thoughts. For example if i was considering a serious relationship i would consider the changes of getting whisked off to some scary land.

Hm...pudding is more important than this.

PS: Jitterbug is my ringtone
 

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Komaticom said:
- stuttering
- always ill
- myopic to the point of blindness
- skinny
- no fashion sense
- Arts Student
- too nice
- blurts out private life details on forums and MSN

^ all are valid points to turn people a relationship with [guess who?]
hmm my brainz are totaly out of it. You really confused me on that one:confused:
 

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Komaticom said:
- stutters

- skinny
- Media Arts student (double damage there)
- too nice
- too loose with personal details

^ all are valid points to turn people off a relationship with yours truly. :D
i thought that described you?

well like they say i guess ... opposites attract
 

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ahhh .. haha i thought you were being sarcastic about your sarcasm?

never mind
 

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lack of self- confidant
no sense of humor
financially unstable
emotionally unstable
dont have a car - rely on public transport all the time
marcho
 

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you know, i can fit all those criteria if i tried, except for maybe emotional stability, but i seriously can't be fucked. that's what i image would be the criteria of most girls and i just can't be bothered. they aren't worth the effort. thing is, if i fit those criteria, i could theoretically go for a higher class of girl. =\
 
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I'm seriously the worst for superficial reasons for not wanting to be with people.
Mostly coz i'm pretty self destructive and will use pretty much any reason to run the hell away from a relationship.
It really bothers me going out with someone shorter than I am and just generally not overly good looking and I know that's awful. They can be the most awesome person ever and their looks will still bug me... maybe I just unfairly and incorrectly think I should be with someone more attractive?
It's stupid. I'm stupid.
 

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iambored said:
Different religion (No Christians allowed)
Different nationality - Ref: below
Differences in sexual wants
Drinking / drugs / smoking
Piercings (girls ears not included!) / tattoos
Education, including uni / tafe / leave before senior years (I'd need the guy to have an education!)


Generally not good looking enough / too good looking, including bad skin and good / bad dress sense
Have too many friends of opposite sex (Jealousy?!)
Dating history (See below)
All of the above as well as:
- A non-virgin
- Being of a certain race - I'm not going to say just in case I offend some people.
- Divorced family
- a down-to-the-cent attitude
- Stinky armpits. lol.

Weight hasn't been an issue 'cos I've liked someone weighing 110kgs.
...and I wouldn't care if the guy's not rich just now.

The race issue isn't too important for me in retrospect - I've had an ethnic fruitbowl already lol.
 
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I'm kinda weird like this..one thing on one guy might turn me off where as take that same fault on another guy and it turns me on..
 

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SweetSeasons said:
I'm kinda weird like this..one thing on one guy might turn me off where as take that same fault on another guy and it turns me on..
is it because the other guy is hotter
 

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