superficial things turining you off a relationship (1 Viewer)

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teeth...i HATE bad teeth...and i cant stress it enough either...i mean they dont have to be in perfect linear form with a hollywood glow...but the cutest guy can turn me off with bad teeth..and vice versa, an ordinary looking guy can really give himself points in my books for having a good smile...
and with bad teeth sometimes comes bad breath...and lets just not go there...

but i have been told by many that im too picky...
-i like a guy with money...
-tall..brown hair....
-good clothes...i dont mean he has to dress designer all the time but i would love it if he owns something other than tracksuit pants and thongs...i also cant stand the "surfie" look...
- perfume is a very big turn on...
- and id like if he has a good education...and is fairly intelligent..not nerdy smart becuase that doesnt do it for me...

hmm if anything i like superficial things....i just dont want guys who are up themselves...i dont want a CK model who cant stop looking at himself in the mirror or one that talks about themselves 24/7
 
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dora_18 said:
- and id like if he has a good education...and is fairly intelligent..not nerdy smart becuase that doesnt do it for me...
lol. a delicate balance indeed! must be hard to please you :p
 

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I think it's hard to say. You dont know whether you'll have a problem with something until you're with someone, and by the same token, you might be okay with stuff you thought you'd hate because you're blinded by love.

that said, turnoffs
- bad teeth for sure
- bad breath
- smoking. i refuse to date a smoker. drugs...it depends... occassional use of pot'd be okay i spose...i dont know. but no smoking. gross.
- fat people. i'm sorry. but i just cant go there. it turns me off. *sigh* superficial i know
 

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fat people...depends what you think is fat....i dont like guys that are really skinny becuase they look like shrimp...but i wouldnt date someone who is morbidly obese either...its just a bit....i dunno...hmmm im really superficial...
i do like a big guy tough...tall..lots of muscles...but not like baywatch kinda guys...dont like them too defined...
 

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My first b/f was a vego. I could overpower him. We dated for 11 months, but the spark wasnt there. he just didnt do it for me. We're great mates now though. ^.^
 

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tlodg said:
is it because the other guy is hotter

I dunno.. I don't think so.. it'slike smoking.. I hated when i was with my ex that he was a smoker.. but there is this guy at uni and damn when he smokes he just looks so cool it makes me wanna smoke.. lol it's weird
 

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SweetSeasons said:
I dunno.. I don't think so.. it'slike smoking.. I hated when i was with my ex that he was a smoker.. but there is this guy at uni and damn when he smokes he just looks so cool it makes me wanna smoke.. lol it's weird
I'm sorry but what utter crap. The only reason you perceive smoking to be cool is because you have been brainwashed into believing it's cool by hollywood stereotypes (how often does the badass character smoke?). There is nothing cool about inflicting damage upon yourself and those around you.
 

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I don't think it's cool.. this one guy just looks fucking sexy as when he smokes... I was just comparing it to how i used to hate when my ex bf smoked
 

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SweetSeasons said:
I dunno.. I don't think so.. it'slike smoking.. I hated when i was with my ex that he was a smoker.. but there is this guy at uni and damn when he smokes he just looks so cool it makes me wanna smoke.. lol it's weird
I understand. It turns me off too.
 

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looking like a rapist can be a turn on and turn off at the same time
 

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UnIqUe_PrInCeSs said:
lol

how does someone look like a rapist?

you can hardly tell if they really are one, well unless they keep staring @ you or something.
it has to do with "rapist-eyes"
so intense
it is as if they could see through your clothes
 

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UnIqUe_PrInCeSs said:
lol

you're scaring me:(

imagine if someone's b/f was a rapist. Everynight, he'd stare at her with those "rapist-eyes". Freaky shit.
LOL how cute of you to say that :)

if ur bf has rapist-eyes after 10pm would you love it
 

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tlodg said:
LOL how cute of you to say that :)

if ur bf has rapist-eyes after 10pm would you love it
yeah maybe, but only if he doesn't look toooooooo closely @ me, or if he doesn't have his eyes wide open where you could only see the white stuff (if you know what I mean lol).

Also, he better not look at any other girl that way:mad1:
 

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UnIqUe_PrInCeSs said:
yeah maybe, but only if he doesn't look toooooooo closely @ me, or if he doesn't have his eyes wide open where you could only see the white stuff (if you know what I mean lol).

Also, he better not look at any other girl that way:mad1:
HAHHAHAHAHAHHHHAHAHAHAHA

btw...y aren't u sleepin yet? watching late night porn?
 

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tlodg said:
HAHHAHAHAHAHHHHAHAHAHAHA

btw...y aren't u sleepin yet? watching late night porn?
hahahahah lol no!

porns only for horny dickheads


Actually, I'm not tired enough to fall asleep. I've been staying up this late like everyday. But when school starts, I'm gonna try sleeping at 12 (and that's the most).

lol what's ur excuse?
 

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UnIqUe_PrInCeSs said:
hahahahah lol no!

porns only for horny dickheads


Actually, I'm not tired enough to fall asleep. I've been staying up this late like everyday. But when school starts, I'm gonna try sleeping at 12 (and that's the most).

lol what's ur excuse?
Yeah you should sleep early.....I wanna sleep at 11 but ...
and my excuse is that I'm simply addicted to the Internet
 

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