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He has absolutely nothing to feel guilty about if he tells the truth. And it depends on your definition of a "destroyed family". If his dad is cheating on his mum and they remain in an unhappy relationship based on a lie for the sake of their kids then that isn't exactly paradise.jumb said:But theres so much power in his hands over this. If he says anything, they might break up. So he has to decide if he'd rather a destroyed family or the burden of guilt.
It's the lesser of two evils.Mezra said:... that isn't exactly paradise.
If it was only that simple. I used to have a particular door handle on my room that could be opened from the outside with a small screwdriver (in case you locked the door by accident and couldn't get in). On more than one occasion my younger brother and sister got a little screwdriver and unlocked my door and just barged in. That doesn't even include them going in my room when I wasn't home... which they did constantly.Serius said:Its my room, people should respect my privacy and knock before they enter.
Ok well we obviously have different definitions of cheating. Anyway, it probably was and is only a kiss, but 1) if it's "not cheating" then it wont split them up. 2) his mum still deserves to know.Serius said:i call a destroyed family one where the parents split up. His dad isnt cheating on his mum[that we know]
LOL.Serius said:This is from my view: iam sound asleep and very suddenly iam woken up by the sound of my door opening, its that abrupt[no knocking] that i think world war 3 has broken out and we have to get to an underground bunker NOW. Iam naked. The girl next to me is naked. His view is partially obscured by my chest of draws but that wont hold for very long if he steps into my room to hand me a note of where my family is or whatever. Thinking quick i "roll over" with my doona and push the girl on the floor[wall side of the bed] along with a blanket and feign confusion because ive been asleep. Best. Save.Ever.
My mates have walked in on me a few times but they were generally cool about it, quickly closed the door and didnt even make any noise.
I have considered that... but it freaked me out seeing it once. I don't particularly want to try and can catch him doing it again.nichhhole said:Maybe u should see if this hooking up is something frequent..
if so, then it would be a cause to tell ur mother/confront ur father..
If it was a once off..
then perhaps its better to just leave it be?