What are your tutoring horror stories? (3 Viewers)

[Green Yoda]

Never got beaten, morality in life still in tact

 

[Paradoxica]

Never got beaten, morality in life still in tact

well, at least you're still positive about life in general...

(as you can see, I am clearly a cynic)

 

[Green Yoda]

well, at least you're still positive about life in general...

(as you can see, I am clearly a cynic)

Watch prince EA's vids.

 

[eyeseeyou]

wtf, id drop his arse if he did that shit to me

But apparently it doesn't have some sort of mental effect on you

 

[Queenroot]

Haven't gotten beat ever, still respect my parents. Haven't turned out fucked up.

Bf has been beaten to death, has lost his relationship with parents.

Anecdotal evidence but yeah, it's still something.

 

[Squar3root]

Haven't gotten beat ever, still respect my parents. Haven't turned out fucked up.

Bf has been beaten to death, has lost his relationship with parents.

Anecdotal evidence but yeah, it's still something.

I still respect them just don't tell them anything, what I am doing, don't initiate conversation with them etc pretty much the same as you imo

 

[Queenroot]

I talk to my parents tho

 

[Queenroot]

Ur parents don't even know what degree ur doing or how u flew to Melbourne in 2014

 

[Squar3root]

I talk to my parents tho

Ur parents don't even know what degree ur doing or how u flew to Melbourne in 2014

but u lie to them as well and they know I am doing engo at unsw

 

[Queenroot]

but u lie to them as well and they know I am doing engo at unsw

stop getting off topic

 

[Nailgun]

Jesus christ I wasn't going to respond to this shit but c'mon can't you see how dumb you guys sound when you generalise things like this????? Stop being so ignorant and realise that there are MUCH better ways to discipline / change behaviour.


We as humans are all different, we are affected by things differently as a result (play of genetics and environment). So smacking a child might have either a positive effect (like apparently it had on you) or a negative effect. Don't be naive and think smacking a child results in good things all the time. Sometimes getting smacked doesn't do shit, the kid still can turn out to be an asshole.

I have my own anecdotal evidence but it doesn't mean shit because like I said it varies from person to person (just like yours doesn't).

Not just asian parents beat their kids?? Most of the older generations beat their kids. At least in my family.

See this blog about methods of changing your kid's behaviour WITHOUT beating them.

I believe you may be contradicting yourself lel

 

[Flop21]

I believe you may be contradicting yourself lel

That doesn't look like I'm contradicting myself at all, not sure what you're talking about.

New evidence has come out:

http://psycnet.apa.org/?&fa=main.doiLanding&doi=10.1037/fam0000191

"Spanking children increases the likelihood of childhood defiance and long-term mental issues. The study in question involved 160,000 children and five decades of research"

You cannot continue to think hitting your kid is okay. Please educate yourselves if you think otherwise.

 

[Error404]

That doesn't look like I'm contradicting myself at all, not sure what you're talking about.

New evidence has come out:

http://psycnet.apa.org/?&fa=main.doiLanding&doi=10.1037/fam0000191

"Spanking children increases the likelihood of childhood defiance and long-term mental issues. The study in question involved 160,000 children and five decades of research"

You cannot continue to think hitting your kid is okay. Please educate yourselves if you think otherwise.

Tell that to my mum she threatened me with a knife, punches me and hits me with a wooden ladle thing so...
One time she actually stood on me I thought my ribs would break or something I was eleven then, my dad usually doesn't do anything only sometimes he actually stops my mum. Just recently my mum broke my glasses by hitting my face.

 

[Queenroot]

Tell that to my mum she threatened me with a knife, punches me and hits me with a wooden ladle thing so...
One time she actually stood on me I thought my ribs would break or something I was eleven then, my dad usually doesn't do anything only sometimes he actually stops my mum. Just recently my mum broke my glasses by hitting my face.

Learn to defend yourself by taking some sort of martial arts

 

[Error404]

Learn to defend yourself by taking some sort of martial arts

I did a year of taekwondo which my mum lol actually enrolled me in but she's less violent know probs due to old age.

 

[Queenroot]

I did a year of taekwondo which my mum lol actually enrolled me in but she's less violent know probs due to old age.

If you have the money I'd do it anyways

it's a life skill and worth it imo

 

[BandSixFix]

Tell that to my mum she threatened me with a knife, punches me and hits me with a wooden ladle thing so...
One time she actually stood on me I thought my ribs would break or something I was eleven then, my dad usually doesn't do anything only sometimes he actually stops my mum. Just recently my mum broke my glasses by hitting my face.

wtf... get her arrested

 

[Error404]

wtf... get her arrested

She's my mum nonetheless, I don't want to be associated with criminals... (I plan to get a 99+ atar be a doctor leave the house and never keep contact with family, except maybe my siblings.)

 

[nerdasdasd]

Tell that to my mum she threatened me with a knife, punches me and hits me with a wooden ladle thing so...
One time she actually stood on me I thought my ribs would break or something I was eleven then, my dad usually doesn't do anything only sometimes he actually stops my mum. Just recently my mum broke my glasses by hitting my face.

Your mum is crazy

Tiger asian parents?

 

[Error404]

Your mum is crazy

Tiger asian parents?

Yep very extreme.