what constitutes cheating? (2 Viewers)

[alby]

Ahh no, the patria potestas of the father overrides the husband's, so its all good *nods*

too early for big words mike

 

[Loz#1]

I need more guys to answer this.

 

[cerpin taxt]

no offense, but it's a bit of a retarded question. everyone's going to have different limits on where their partner can go with other women.

 

[Loz#1]

no offense, but it's a bit of a retarded question. everyone's going to have different limits on where their partner can go with other women.

and i'm open to everyone's opinion so stfu.

 

[Serius]

anything done with someone else that you wouldnt want your partner to know about is cheating. Holding hands? well if they are drunk and you are helping them cross the street then fine. If you are doing it because of an emotional attachment - not fine.

 

[Atticus.]

cheating starts with planning to hook up...
it manifests when there is a kiss.
it ends with a well time fly kick to cliff plummet

 

[Loz#1]

So basically everyone has their own opinion of where cheating begins, which is good, and apparently I'm screwed. BUT do you think the universial rule is that cheating begins when there is actual kissing, hitting bases and so forth?

What an odd question.

 

[Atticus.]

yep i think thats the general rule loz... a kiss or anything more is 100% cheating

 

[Loz#1]

yep i think thats the general rule loz... a kiss or anything more is 100% cheating

well now i feel better.

 

[The_highwayman]

that doesnt mean that something < kissing isnt cheating, though.

 

[AsyLum]

too early for big words mike

never too early/late for roman!

 

[RiCkiE]

Cheating begins when you get caught.

Haha. I agree with the people who said that cheating begins with emotional attachment but as for the physical side...kissing?

And how come you're screwed?

 

[Loz#1]

Haha. I agree with the people who said that cheating begins with emotional attachment but as for the physical side...kissing?

And how come you're screwed?

because i'm emotionally cheating! i don't want to be, i just can't help the way i feel and i feel like such a bitch.

 

[RiCkiE]

Just don't act on it and you'll be fine...or maybe you want to be with that guy and not your current bf?

 

[Bolta]

There are the obvious things like kissing, fooling around etc. But there is also straying from the relationship which could be considered harmless fun but would still hurt the other partner.


I'm in the situation where I'm still good friends with my ex after breaking up 10 months ago. I give her massages on her bed with her top off and have naps with her when were tired and just want to relax. When we go out we like to have fun which leads to a bit of dirty dancing. A couple of weeks she ago blurted out "do you want to have sex?" when she was feeling frisky but hasn't done it since. I feel our friendship does cross the boundries sometimes. She has a BF and if I was in his situation I would be pissed. Does all this constitute cheating?


I'm also finding myself questioning whether my intent is purely friendship, emotional or I just want to fuck.

 

[Atticus.]

There are the obvious things like kissing, fooling around etc. But there is also straying from the relationship which could be considered harmless fun but would still hurt the other partner.


I'm in the situation where I'm still good friends with my ex after breaking up 10 months ago. I give her massages on her bed with her top off and have naps with her when were tired and just want to relax. When we go out we like to have fun which leads to a bit of dirty dancing. A couple of weeks she ago blurted out "do you want to have sex?" when she was feeling frisky but hasn't done it since. I feel our friendship does cross the boundries sometimes. She has a BF and if I was in his situation I would be pissed. Does all this constitute cheating?


I'm also finding myself questioning whether my intent is purely friendship, emotional or I just want to fuck.

she is cheating on her man... massage with her top off? jesus id be distraught if my girlfriend had that done to her by some guy... especially if it was her ex!

and loz, until you actually act upon your feelings you arnt cheating. your feelings have to manifest them selves into a physical act with the person you are talking about... dont feel too bad mate

 

[mr_brightside]

having your top off is the only way to give/recieve massages. srsly

 

[what971]

I gotta say, having a nice nap with b/f sounds nice. Will probably try it sometime.

 

[Lil Miss Karly]

Loz, do you still have strong feelings for your bf despite the new crush-ish thing? Just wondering.....could you explain the situation or would you prefer to keep that private?

 

[Loz#1]

Loz, do you still have strong feelings for your bf despite the new crush-ish thing? Just wondering.....could you explain the situation or would you prefer to keep that private?

I wouldn't call it a crush, I'd say old feelings have come back into play even though I know there's no chance of ever having a relationship with guy no.2. So, as I've interpreted it, I still love my boyfriend but I feel like we're a bit too 'married' at the moment and guy no.2 is exciting, if that makes any sense at all.