try to ignore her. well dont actively do it but just try to keep her out of your mind and be around your mates- if you start hanging around her heaps shes going to get cranky that u dont leave her alone. and its most possible that if you try to ignore her she's going to be all "ahh i want you back" IF thats going to happen.Auto Wah said:yeah thanks guys, i went out today with friends and some new people, felt a lot better. Babydoll is totally right about keeping myself busy. When i have too much time to sit around that's when all the pain comes back.
Yeah now i'm just gonna find stuff to do until i get over her or maybe she'll change her mind.
I know for sure that we'll go out again soon, maybe not just the two of us but with more people. I'm a little confused right now, Should i avoid her? I really want to see her but you know. Is it possible that girl's feelings takes a little more time to develop than guys? maybe i should give her more time to think things over and the fun we had while we were together.
Play guitar.Auto Wah said:Do you drink every night just to try and escape the pain?
or do you wait until that feeling is over?
talk to someone about it?
what do you do?
Fuck it's going to kill me
Bad idea. Really bad idea.miaomiao said:I think that if you really love her, excommunicating yourself from her is not a good idea because itll make you feel even more shit. If she 'just wants to be friends', then just be friends and keep loving her- she'll either come around or she won't but at least you won't have lost the relationship.
yeah i wouldn't suggest doing this either.miaomiao said:I think that if you really love her, excommunicating yourself from her is not a good idea because itll make you feel even more shit. If she 'just wants to be friends', then just be friends and keep loving her- she'll either come around or she won't but at least you won't have lost the relationship.
haha, you know how many times i've heard shitty bands and wanted to kill myself?ChrisE said:listen to a dashboard confessional album....wait that would probabaly make you feel worse.
but seriously, music is the best emotional outlet, you obviously play guitar from ur avatar so let it out on your gibson, write something or listen to a really emotional song, it helps get those bad emotions out. and shopping helps big time, im a guy and do it when im bored or down. whoever said money cant buy happiness is full of shit.