Copacabana NYC said:
Hey guys!
this is my first post! i actually just signed up about 5mins ago! haha because there are so many more interesting things to do than sleep at 1am in the morning!
Anyway!....Got a prob in the love department. I recently just started going out with my bf about 2 weeks ago. I had known him for about 3/4 months before i had said yes.
So he is a nice guy and everything but i was a little taken aback and freaked out when he said 'i love you' on the night i said yes to dating him.......um......my response could of been better. (i laughed and said 'BULLSHIT, you're just saying that coz u wanna get in my pants.....*more laughs*)
*embarrassed*
i said sorry to him after i realised he wasn't laughin as well. And i just told him it was very sweet of him to say that. I really don't feel that way about him yet. So anyway, he has known me for a while, but seriously speaking, it's way too soon to say somethin like that and mean it right?
So, couples out there.... have you said "I love you'? And how long did it take to say it? Want to hear all stories hehe
ive been with my gf over a year and she and i love each other heaps...like i wanna marry this girl....
we broke up once before cos i was being clingy and annoying (i was heartbroken and hated myself for ages) but then after a few months we got back together...
i told her i loved her the first time and she said it back, but i dont think we really meant it. its true what they say: absence makes the heart grow fonder. when we broke up, i hated myself and really just wanted to world to swallow me whole so i could never waste her time ever again....i tried to be a good friend despite it, talking shit thru with her...
then when she was really upset i took her out to the movies and my cousin came too so no-suss and she had been noticing how much i was hurting...apparantly she couldnt keep it in and she leant over and whispered to me:
"i love you"
this time it was real...i could see it in her eyes, feel it in her touch and hear it in her voice. and i loved her back too...
we've been dating ever since and my love for her grows stronger every day...