dora_18 said:
whilst you're at it...learn some grammar...
Rather ironic seeing as lobotamy is actually spelt lobotomy...
Katy, this is what thou must do:
1) Thou must talk to, not confront, thy man with thy concerns and air them in a calm and relaxed manner at a time when thy man is not stressed/tired/vulnerable to emotional outbursts. By this, ye shall gauge the honesty of his response.
2) Ye shall not spy on him lest ye be shown to mistrusteth thy man. Ye shall instead make it beknownst to him thy concerns about his "Origin Party" which he failed to mention to thee. Should a reasonable explanation be given, thou must be comforted and thy suspicion reduced.
3) Thou must overall be honest with thy man and not conceal thy feelings, for if thou should do so ye would be committing a sin near equal to that alleged of thy man.
4) If thou hast any more concerns thou shalt discuss them with thee on MSN.
Good night and good luck m'dear.