It's okay for a girl to take initiative.
Girls, if you are so beautiful and you attract mainly men who are superficial (love you for your looks only),
are you going to sit there, wait for all the superficial ones to "chase" you and then choose 1 outta all of them?
So, when you see a good guy you are interested in, why not try to get to know him better?
You can initiate knowing him better --- that doesn't mean you are chasing him like crazy, just getting to see whether you are compatible, have chemistry, etc...which is much better than waiting for guys to chase you and having to select from only those who chase you in a very obvious way...what if all the guys who chase you are not who you want, and are not really compatible with you?