a hint or just politeness (1 Viewer)

[MzbLaZeIT]

ok listen up here dumbo!
so your living in a house with a bunch of strangers, obviously this girl wants to get to know you in a friendship way, especially if you are going to be living together etc.. like i would definately like to know who the hell im living with!
so what she asked if you like basketball, if your quiet then maybe she was jst striking up some conversation coz it seemed awkward (and to what u said she seems like one of those overly friendly girls)

geeez, i hate when guys think that a girl being friendly wants him.. damn we are just fucking nice people! if i wanted to jump u within the first couple of weeks living with u, then, I WOULD OF.

dont jump to conclusions too soon, or you might see yourself out of the house before youve lived your stay! (especially if she isnt thinking of you in 'that way')
go with the flow + wait for obvious flirts/hints. eg she comes into your room naked at night lol

 

[T-mac01]

lol got some great points right there ppl. Never thought this would start a mini conference.
First of all, I am definitely not fat, I'm 6'2 and 75kg. I think I'm slightly under weight.

Up to myself, maybe and would that be a bad thing? A guy cannot be confident without being up to himself a little bit.

I know she doesn't like bball coz I found out later that she doesn't play any sport at all which is before I posted the forum. Of course, considerably she doesn't hate it either. And yea, she's probably not the most complicated kind of girl, that's why she gave it away so easily shortly after.

And....no...I don't do an art degree. I'm doing a double degree. My UAI is 97.

So now I guess I should just let the expectation go down for awhile and just let things turn out on its own. HOW ABOUT THAT!?

 

[bubu]

dude the chick is being polite...

otherwise she would have made the first move by askin if u r available and about ur past ex's if u have any in wat seems like normal convo, but actualli go into more depth

and smart people never call themselves smart, unless u do a harvard math55 which takes ur average genius 50hours a week to finish homework and u onli take 24hour

 

[Casmira]

oh well you got 97 uai and your smart, its obvious she wants you for that

 

[T-mac01]

btw MzbLaZeIT what kind of "flirts/hints" would be obvious? You gotta know, that's the thing I was clueless in the first place.

 

[Prankster9015]

GIANT ORGY!

 

[loquasagacious]

Dont Shit Where You Eat.

 

[T-mac01]

Of course people don't call themselves smart (that's against the law of smart people) unless they're discussing something on the internet with total strangers(hopefully).
And I doubt that the smarter you get, the more likely you'll boast yourself in front of everyone about your superior intelligence. Especially Harvard freaks. Coz
1. The more knowledge you have, the deeper you'll realise that you don't really know much after all. Coz those guys know they're never going to know everything in one life time. That's a virtue.
2. Harvard isn't just for people with superior memory and intelligence. That's why they do interviews with new incoming students so all of them have a purpose other than just being a guy who gets good grades.

 

[Casmira]

dude; why do you keep trying to put harvard students down and try rise yourself up, just TRY your luck with this girl and if all fails who gives a shit? girls drop suttle hints if their interested or not, if you make a move and she freaks out then she isnt ready or not interested

 

[iambored]

the one thing you haven't mentioned is whether you are interested in her and how interested in her you are. you keep saying she might be interested in you, but if you're not into her that doesn't make much difference. i presume you are a little interested but unsure about the situation.

considering that you live with her, you're likely to find out a lot more about her and see her quite a bit from now on and you'll probably become friends. i think find out more about the situation but don't leave it so long that you end up on the friends ladder (being a newbie, you might not know the ladder theory? http://www.laddertheory.com/ )

 

[Not-That-Bright]

the one thing you haven't mentioned is whether you are interested in her and how interested in her you are. you keep saying she might be interested in you, but if you're not into her that doesn't make much difference. i presume you are a little interested but unsure about the situation.

considering that you live with her, you're likely to find out a lot more about her and see her quite a bit from now on and you'll probably become friends. i think find out more about the situation but don't leave it so long that you end up on the friends ladder (being a newbie, you might not know the ladder theory? http://www.laddertheory.com/ )

Don't you think the problem with 'the ladder theory' is that it basically comes down to 'well she either likes u or she don't'.... I mean where's the great revelation in that?

 

[iambored]

Don't you think the problem with 'the ladder theory' is that it basically comes down to 'well she either likes u or she don't'.... I mean where's the great revelation in that?

lol aren't all theories bs and 'revelations' to explain the most basic of things?

 

[Not-That-Bright]

lol aren't all theories bs and 'revelations' to explain the most basic of things?

Well I dunno most of the more popular social theories give us a new insight (i.e. marxism) but I agree there are some that are quite bs.

 

[withoutaface]

Dont Shit Where You Eat.

59 posts and only one of them is intelligent.

 

[T-mac01]

So does that make you the second person coming in here with an intelligent post?

 

[sunjet]

You're sharing a place with 6 girls? Fuck you.

 

[Ranger Stacie]

you are analysing this situation way to much. and if you were as intelligent and high and mighty as you say, then you would have something better to do

 

[T-mac01]

yea....but I can't help being curious

 

[loquasagacious]

And yes justin is the second intelligent person to post.

 

[T-mac01]

haha...you're ruining the good image he's created for you. Just shut up for your own good.