Clingy... (2 Viewers)

[TaEkWoNdObArBiE]

So you hook up.

How do you manage to seem interested without being clingy at the same time?

 

[mr_brightside]

Be cool now.

 

[Riet]

1) Don't call at a completely fucking random time of day, early in the morning and late at night, even in the holidays I'm only up till 3 or so.
2) Don't call and winge about your parents/siblings/work/school.
3) Don't ring more than twice in one attempt. If I missed the first two (or didn't answer) the next 5 aren't going to make a difference.
4) Don't ever, ever put your phone on private number (maybe that's just me, I can't fucking stand it) as I won't be able to call you back.

1) Do send me an SMS just saying "what's up?" every now and then.
2) Do call me sometime the following week, in the afternoon or evening.
3) Do invite me to do something if that's what you want. When girls do that "but he has to ask ME out" crap it's fucking retarded.
4) Post tits or GTFO.

 

[dubya's dildo]

I see nothing wrong with reaffirming your love and supporting your man at every opportunity available.

 

[TaEkWoNdObArBiE]

What if there is no reply to messages?

Are you being shafted?

 

[Enteebee]

What if there is no reply to messages?

Are you being shafted?

meh...

get over it? do what you want, send more messages, he might think you're clingy but who really cares in the end? Maybe you are, why start a relationship off on a lie?

 

[cfair]

What if there is no reply to messages?

Are you being shafted?

Yeah, you are.

If you send a message, he got it, you don't need to send more. If you do it's just annoying... It shits me to tears personally.

 

[TaEkWoNdObArBiE]

Yep.

Thats what I thought.

 

[cfair]

Did you ask him to meet up or something straight up? If so that is probably why he didn't reply.

 

[Dumsum]

Don't take it personally until you've actually spoken to them, any number of factors could contribute to no replies (eg no credit, dead battery). SMS is the bane of any sort of relationship.

 

[Tulipa]

What if there is no reply to messages?

Are you being shafted?

messages

One is enough.

Any more and you'll be clingy.

 

[Enteebee]

I'd wager he already knows you're desperate/clingy so just keep going.

 

[TaEkWoNdObArBiE]

Did you ask him to meet up or something straight up? If so that is probably why he didn't reply.

No no, like, everything was fine and normal. And it was the usual just talking about work and what was going on, and then he just didnt reply to one yesterday.

Then I sent him a 'how was last night' one today and he hasn't replied.

 

[cfair]

Oh alright, in that case he is probably just out of credit or something.

That or you bored him to death with convo about work .

Do you find it awkward talking to people you hooked up with the next day? I do, I fucking hate it.

 

[TaEkWoNdObArBiE]

He's on a plan.

And as I said it was just the usual, nothing out of the ordinary was said.

We are really close friends as well so I am finding it really strange.

Last time we hooked up was a couple of years ago and he initiated and instigated it, and then did the exact same thing.

 

[TaEkWoNdObArBiE]

Or I just got a reply now.

 

[Tulipa]

Freak out over nothing much?

Do you really like him or something?

 

[Enteebee]

Or I just got a reply now.

Reply reads:

Hay do u post on boredofstudies.org?

 

[TaEkWoNdObArBiE]

I don't know.

It's just a really weird situation with some weird circumstances.

I'm just confused because I don't understand why a guy can be so into a girl with continual messages etc. and then when they hookup it all just stops.

And based on last time a couple of years ago when a similar thing happened.

Ugh. So not good with this stuff.

 

[Tulipa]

He's a manipulative asshole who is using you for when he wants some then can't be bothered keeping it up when he doesn't want some.

Or you know. He just sucks with the girls.

I'm going for the former.