Atticus.
how do i get out of this
no you may notTaEkWoNdObArBiE said:
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sounds awfully familiar to me, except i would of been guy Z and tried too resolve it and in the end get blamed for itTaEkWoNdObArBiE said:Hmmm...well...I need advice. My friendships have turned to shit lately. There is this group of us. Four of us, me and my best friend and two guy best friends. We live in the blue mountains and they live a couple of hours away.
We make effort to see each other, on weekends and all of that, and through the holidays. Yesterday we went out as a foursome and went bowling and saw madagascar then went back to one of their houses. I actually do/did really like one of the guys (X) and me and him were alone in a room. Nothing happened...just hugging and dancing and shit. Nothing serious...but one of the guys (Y) got really jealous. Like REALLY jealous and now he hates me and is calling me a liar.
Then last night I had a convo on msn which could seem rather incriminating with the guy who I was left alone with...he showed it to the other guy and then in turn the guy that is very angry at me told my best friend who is now 'shocked, amazed and appalled at me'
Ages ago I told Y that I worried about X sometimes and how he keeps things bottled up. Last night Y told X and I believe everything is screwed. Y even told my best friend he wishes I would get hit by a bus.
He continued to say that I only do things for self gain etc. I'm just really upset and feel like shit in general. Oh YAY
So anyways...if I can have any advice how to get through this whole situation...that would be nice...Cheers
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hes a virgin...the way he acts he is going to die a cold, hard virgin...emphasis on the HARD part...markmooks said:Could be your friend was giving you a clear path to the guy, you called dibs on him so she said she wasn't into him so you'd not feel bad.
Sounds like the guy likes to fuck. If you're into that and want him to fuck you, go find him, kick him in the proverbial for copying your convo to the other guy. He doesn't need to be strutting around like the big stud. Tell him he should appreciate and respect you, and after he apologises, fuck his nuts off
and as for my friend...ive liked him since november last year...shes known for a long time that ive liked him...she lied to me awhile ago about something relating to X a few weeks ago and i found out and was unhappy...from then i said to her...be honest...nothing will hurt me more than u lying to me.
Needless to say, she lied again
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Awww...well...trust me...to everybody else in this situation i am 'the bad guy' getting blamed for everything...Casmira said:sounds awfully familiar to me, except i would of been guy Z and tried too resolve it and in the end get blamed for it
If X has been telling u what Y says about u (like that he wants u to get hit by a bus ) then obviously his loyalty is to u not Y.. maybe u two should just keep being friends and give Y time to cool off for a while.. if u guys r as close as u say he'll probably come around in a while.. if he stays pissed then maybe u should try talking to him in a couple of weeks and sort out why he's being so irrational..
in the mean time just keep up the friendship with your bestie and X so u don't all have a huge falling out.. trust me, it sux when your whole group falls apart!
good luck!
) then obviously his loyalty is to u not Y.. maybe u two should just keep being friends and give Y time to cool off for a while.. if u guys r as close as u say he'll probably come around in a while.. if he stays pissed then maybe u should try talking to him in a couple of weeks and sort out why he's being so irrational..in the mean time just keep up the friendship with your bestie and X so u don't all have a huge falling out.. trust me, it sux when your whole group falls apart!
good luck!
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hmmm find out whats really going on with X ... find a homosexual boy toy to distract Y ... then live happily ever after
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at present i would like to cry/die...okay?? thanks...friends suck...
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according to X im not physically attractive...we have had a massive argument...fuck life...
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miss_gtr said:
nah...lol...st columbas
why??
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Lol...winmaleemiss_gtr said:
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its right next to springwoodmiss_gtr said:
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X and Y are dicks....Y came crawling back...X thinks i owe him the sun and moon and stars...and he owes me nothing...fucking nob jockey owes me everything...it was him that showed a fucking convo to Y
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Well, unlike you, my friends and friendships take pride over hobbies in my life. If you had any friends you would understand what its like to run the risk of LOSING one.jumb said:
Either you have lost so many friends it doesnt matter, or you never had friends in the first place.
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touche...i cant argue...jumb said:
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fuck this...im one of those pathetic people...Y now hates me again...im just...FUCK...
Beckiki_S
I call President!
What... How did that happen?TaEkWoNdObArBiE said:fuck this...im one of those pathetic people...Y now hates me again...im just...FUCK...
Taekwondobarbie how come you are always so close with guys but nothing actually ever happens? Are you scared of hooking up or something?
Probably, the fact that there are two guys and two girls means that you're always going to be stuck in a love square (and yes, i too have drawn a diagram - in year 10 - to illustrate similar situations) so its probably best if you make some space between you and your girl friend and these two guys til you're a bit older or something... its such an unnecessarily complicated area that you could do with not being a part of, or you'll always wind up acting like a bitch, getting hurt or losing sleep over it all.