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Painful memories....Lhyviathan said:I'd say that boat sailed away with Orlando...
Painful memories....Lhyviathan said:I'd say that boat sailed away with Orlando...
ARABIANKNIGHT said:What ever happened to the old-fashioned way of doing things...
When a guy says fuck the girl should ask how hard, not sit there and devise a packet of bullshit reasons why she shouldn't... New age girls are soft little bitches who piss me off.
Not all, I'm not manlywhiterabbit said:New age girls are too manly.
New age guys are too girly.
Pretty soon we'll lose this concept of 'gender'...
nah , yuor just a picky bitch. Its the women who are the problem these days, they never seem to shut up about womens rights and how much they are worth blah blah blah. go iron my shirtspin spin sugar said:i think new age girls are great, its the new age guys that suck
gotta agree, there are metrosexuals as far as the eye can see...spin spin sugar said:i think new age girls are great, its the new age guys that suck
look, i dont wanna get into a big debate about this coz it was just something iteresting to me...Kittycat said:Actually, the main reason why Chinese families want a son is because of them carrying on the name. My grandparents wanted a son because he can carry on the name (yeah, like my last name is not common enough).
Chinese families put more importance on their son's education and the sons aim for a very good job than their daughters because they believe she can be taken care of by their husband but generally speaking, they want all their kids (no matter if it is a son or daughter) to excel in their studies as it gives them face. It is not that women aren't expected to be able to work in the fields as capably as men, it is believe that they don't need to.
The daughter is not actually seen as a child carer/cook/cleaner.... fine, they are seen as a cook, cleaner, a person to bring home money and take care of their parents but not child carer. If people are allowed only one child, daughters are not as popular because when they grow up to an age where they are most 'useful' (being able to work for the family & bring home the money) they are married off.
Even though a daughter is married off, I know of alot of parents who actually stayed with their daughters instead of their son and the daughter's in-laws actually had to live elsewhere.
If it wasn't for the 1 child policy, most families would want to have sons and daughters as daughters generally are more willing to take care of their parents than the son.
bamiyan said:gotta agree, there are metrosexuals as far as the eye can see...
Of course, you are right, it is not just the name. Yea, it is an important reason but there are heaps of other reasons that goes along with it that is just as important.LaraB said:look, i dont wanna get into a big debate about this coz it was just something iteresting to me...
im not saying you're wrong coz obviously that's what you've experienced, so it isnt wrong
im just saying that ppls in the doco who spent their lives analysing this said that it wasnt as simple as carrying on the family name, (especially since many women now keep their family name wghen they're married coz the gov intro'd this recently), its more complicated than that and the point the people in the doco raised was that even most of the younger chinese community in china don't realise that its not as simple as a name...
but as i said - you're experience is probably just different to the communities the doco experts studied
SashatheMan said:nah , yuor just a picky bitch. Its the women who are the problem these days, they never seem to shut up about womens rights and how much they are worth blah blah blah. go iron my shirt
not all girls r bitchybraad said:woh, i neva agreed...or maybe i did, but i can explain, i'd just had an agrument with a girl...so, yersssss...nething 2 do with females was negative from me....
SHIT HAPPENS folks
I think he's pretty much just said that he knows that and was just in a bad moodHSC_sUcKsSsS said:not all girls r bitchy
but i call all girls bitches, its what they respond to. even if its a really cool girl (haha) m i still go "bitch come here i got pancake mix sitting here , not being mixed"ogmzergrush said:I think he's pretty much just said that he knows that and was just in a bad mood
I'm not even sure why you're replying to me, ok... I guess you win, the prize or something?SashatheMan said:but i call all girls bitches, its what they respond to. even if its a really cool girl (haha) m i still go "bitch come here i got pancake mix sitting here , not being mixed"
Dreamerish*~ said:well has it ever occured to you that all girls are different?
ok, i don't like you because you're a dickhead. are all guys dickheads?