what to do what to do.... (1 Viewer)

[puglover]

ok well i have this crush on a some what stranger.. and have never ever had such feelings for a stranger before.
i have bumped into him 3 or so times.
saw him walk into a house three or so doors down from me...
i have tried so unbelievably hard to bump into him again...
like i walked the dog past the house a fair bit, hung out at the park between our houses hoping that i will bump into him.
i had this crazy idea of putting something in the mail box but was afraid somebody else might see it.. and that it might also freak him out.
the thing is.. if i do bump into him.. what on earth do i say other then 'hello'..
do i say omg i have been dreaming about you every night? lol. oh and if it is any help i know he plays the drums. i can hear from my house. and he seems to be out friday/sat nights doing gigs i imagine. only guessing though.
and i saw this girl once and i though DAMMIT he has a girlfriend. then i worked out that it must be his sister cause she was with this dude.

anyways, i swear i am not a freak.
never felt this way before about a stranger.
im not desperate, i have turned down guys before (just to clarify)

there is just something about this guy, the way he smiled at me. he was charming. he seems like fun. he's a spunk. i think he is my kinda guy.

did i forget to mention heh.. im 18 he looks 21ish. scared i might have competition =/

i just need like a confidence boost or something i think maybe.

and it is fair enough to say that i am stalking this hot ass guy XD

 

[ogmzergrush]

Skipped most of your post because I have a low tolerance for rambling bullshit (unless it's my own).

Regarding the confidence boost, click here. Good day to you.

 

[Excalibur_]

Geeez...sometimes you people can be insensitive.

I'd say - wait and see...no need to rush into it [especially after coming out of a long-term relationship]!

 

[ogmzergrush]

Insensitive? I didn't even mention suicide!?

 

[puglover]

yeah been feeling a bit guilty about that aswell =/
i have never cared about a guy the same way i did peter, and still do.
i dunno just fantasy of these guy.. helps keep my mind of peter ya know

 

[puglover]

and yes i know i was ranting.
it makes me feel better to rant so bad luck.
it beats keeping all that feeling in.

and lol thanks for the photo..
im doing a super hero dress up on friday
gives me some ideas

 

[Serius]

wow you are one emotionally confused girl. Maybe you should sort out your priorites before you go contacting someone you dont know.

 

[puglover]

no im not no im not.

ok maybe i am..
this random full on rubbed up against me in this lecture in the city.
i kinda felt weird.
like i dunno guilty, having just broken up with peter.
and i wanted to scream fuck off.
im not used to this.. i have only ever been with one guy and well the other was simply the other.
like im supposed to have this time to get over him. like most people in break ups.
i dont wanna just have no relationship to wait to get over him.
i wanna move on. it hurts to just do nothing.. i care for him as a friend, and am sure it is nothing more then that. sure, i wanna kiss him and stuff, but i hold back because as a couple i just know we dont work. i feel better when i see other people. despite what happened with that random in the city lmao.. i have never had that happen before lol.

 

[Shell]

lol do the letter box thing. you never know, he could be a guy that likes that kind of thing. the worst that could happen is that he does think you're a freak and if thats the case, well you dont want him anyway.

 

[puglover]

yeah but surely he must know i exist.
i have only been staring at his house a million times, snuck past with grace.
clearly im obvious enough already..

but the thing is if i got a letter in my mailbox from a random..
i would be freaked out so you know...

and i dont even know the guys name so i couldnt address it anyways..
and i wouldnt know what to write anyways..
to blabla, i am your stalker. ive bumped into you a few times at the park and think you are real swell will you marry me?

lmao joke.
i dont think im that desperate yet.

but the thing is..
if i do bump into him again,
i wanna say something worthwhile..
cause he his hard to bump into...
i dont want it to simply be ..
i say hi.. he says hi.. we keep walking...
how do i get him to stay and have a convo with me lol ?
i have heard him play the drums so maybe i could say that o.o
this is crazy. im crazy.

and the worst thing is far worse.. the whole street could find out because he is on my street. and i would be awkard walking in the street. and them all laughing at me.
but the good is far better aswell, he lives 3 doors down.. i could go to his house everynight and he could come to mine... oh the fun we could have at each others houses

 

[Lions_Fist]

the thing is.. if i do bump into him.. what on earth do i say other then 'hello'..
do i say omg i have been dreaming about you every night? lol.

I must say, if you say anything containing the internet vernacular "omg" or "lol", you won't go well.

 

[puglover]

then WHAT do i say?

 

[Shell]

how long has he lived in your street for?

 

[nellabella]

hello

 

[puglover]

i have no idea.
but...
i just moved into the street a year or so ago.
have bumped into him like 3 times on the way home...
and i swear i swear the last time i spotted him it was a suggestive smile.
have only bumped into him a fews ago.

the thing is what do i say if i bump into him again?

 

[puglover]

i have no idea.
but...
i just moved into the street a year or so ago.
have bumped into him like 3 times on the way home...
and i swear i swear the last time i spotted him it was a suggestive smile.
have only bumped into him a fews ago.

the thing is what do i say if i bump into him again?

 

[Pace_T]

wat to say totally depends on wat u look like
if ur hot u dont need to say much to him lol. but if its the other way around its gona be hard work, especially if u dont have much in common with him.. but then again he lives close 2 u, so thats something right there

 

[puglover]

ooops sorry double post.

well i dunno if i am hot or not.
i would like to say im a dateable..
but how would a 21 yr old see an 18 year old? =/
maybe i look 21 who knows..
i dunno

 

[ur_inner_child]

Weren't you hung up on someone before?

Pretty quick

 

[ObjectsInSpace]

ooops sorry double post.

well i dunno if i am hot or not.
i would like to say im a dateable..
but how would a 21 yr old see an 18 year old? =/
maybe i look 21 who knows..
i dunno

Take into account the psyche of your typical 21-year-old male: looking at linoleum is enough to make them think about sex. If he thinks dating you is the fast-track to a blow job, he'll do it. It's simply a matter of taming him before then.