What does "You're a Nice Guy" Actually Mean? (2 Viewers)

[choc-chip]

I think Withoutaface means that girls SHOULD prefer guys who are nice but have the guts to say things that the girl may not like but needs to be said. If its an honest relationship there is no chance a guy is going to be so utterly nice all the time and never say something hurtful and honest. Same applies to the female.

Well said.*clapz*
...However, It can never apply to the female..

 

[sparkl3z]

It means, go to a girl who you think would actually date you.

 

[choc-chip]

It means, go to a girl who you think would actually date you.

Oh..So you ask every girl "would you date me" at the first time u meet them, to make sure they r investable?

 

[mossup]

means not physically attracted to ya.

 

[jebbie]

shut up jess

Its okay, you dont need to get cut cos there are nice guys out there. Somewhere. Over the rainbow

 

[braad]

Its okay, you dont need to get cut cos there are nice guys out there. Somewhere. Over the rainbow

lol

too many gay references there jeBBie, miss swiss

 

[jebbie]

lol

too many gay references there jeBBie, miss swiss

Im Swedish. ya and the BB is german

 

[braad]

Im Swedish. ya and the BB is german

i'll call you gerdish then

 

[jebbie]

i'll call you gerdish then

Eww, that reminds me of girdles.. Besides if anything its Swezn

 

[braad]

Eww, that reminds me of girdles.. Besides if anything its Swezn

swerman


did you just block me?

lol...so mean jebbie

 

[jebbie]

swerman


did you just block me?

lol...so mean jebbie

Kekekeke .

 

[braad]

Kekekeke .

you sound/look like kaylz

well done

:|

 

[jebbie]

you sound/look like kaylz

well done

:|

I look nothing like kaylz. I wouldnt know if I sound like her though - she hardly talks to me.

 

[braad]

I look nothing like kaylz. I wouldnt know if I sound like her though - she hardly talks to me.

she says kekeke

i wouldnt know if you 2 look alike

but you are female, thats pretty close

 

[Nashie]

so... judging form this thread I shouldn't ask the chick who called me, and I quote "a sweet kid" and said she was "lucky to be your mate" to come to my work christmas party with me? (it is this saturday night with open bar!!*rubs hands together in glee)*

nb. I would have asked someone earlier but I wass only told today i MUST bring someone (female obviously) as me bringing a partner was taken into account when booking the place

 

[KeypadSDM]

The "N" word. not that end word. Women why do you say it. Fellas why do you hate it

Women say it because they're too pansy to drop the truth on a guy. It's gotten to the point where actually SAYING "You're nice" isn't a euphemism any more, it's ACTUALLY THE PHRASE: "I don't want to fuck you".

Guys don't like hearing it, because it CAN be misconstrued as "I want to persue a relationship, I just want to see if you're 'for me' first".

 

[Ranger Stacie]

it means "i like you as a friend but you are not sexy/hot/enough of a dickhead for me to want to sleep with you, etc"

 

[anarchron]

It doesn't make sense. Why the hell do girls fall for the bad boys who are more likely to run into trouble with the law etc etc? Why do they prefer the guys who treat them like trash as compared to with the nice guy?

 

[Ranger Stacie]

in my experience theres roughly 3 categories of guys: dickheads who just dont care, clingy wimpy losers, and "other".
some girls do like the clingers, cos they enjoy being emotionally smothered. the rest of us prefer dickheads who just dont care, presumably, because we want what we cant have and nice is kind of boring.\

 

[iambored]

It doesn't make sense. Why the hell do girls fall for the bad boys who are more likely to run into trouble with the law etc etc? Why do they prefer the guys who treat them like trash as compared to with the nice guy?

Bad boys know how to get the chicks, they know the right things to say. Nice guys sit back. Of course the girls will fall for the guys that know what to say to them.