There's no way to really adapt this question for girls... As most martial arts that involve a substantial amount of cardio (especially kickboxing) are going to give a girl the sort of build she is probably after= slim and toned.
I also sought of made the criteria based around my current weight and height (78kg 6'0), if you are a decent amount shorter, & lighter than 70kg already then maybe you could make it 80kg ripped.
by 100kg ripped I don't mean like steroid guzzling professional bodybuilder big, more just a size where anyone that saw you walking down the street would know you must be able to lift some dam heavy weights.
I posted this on another forum and everyone chose the 2nd option, stating that no one is going to pick a fight with a guy that's 100kg of ripped muscle (intimidation factor).