I'll try to rephrase it:
Suppose you have two points A(x1, y1), B(x2, y2) on the parabola x^2 = 4ay whose tangents pass through a common point P(x0, y0) outside the parabola. We now want to find the equation for the chord of contact (line AB).
Subbing P into the tangents at A and B, shows...