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I would sit in a corner, listen to a lot of bright eyes. exclaim 'shit. im scared'. and move to Mozambiquesparkl3z said:I was just wondering, if people in uni were 100 percent sure that they had found the right person for them, would they consider getting married during or after uni straightaway? Or something like 4 years after graduating?
I always used to think that 3 or 4 years after uni is the best time to deal with that kind of stuff, but since my relationship, i've been having second thoughts.
Do you think that marriage will get in the way of education? Even if you don't have kids etc?
lol..ofcourse i was joking soha...thats why i added that (hehe) bit at the end....no need to be insultedsoha said:r u kiding or being serious?
coz if ur joking then lol
if u seriously forgot..then im insulted![]()
I wouldnt call it low, I'd call it desperateArgonaut said:That was low. Dropping hints on an internet forum ... it's just low.
I totally agree, I just didnt want to jade the kiddies' views on marriage and such things.Argonaut said:Hypothetically, you could find out your partner's darkest secrets if you put it off and end up breaking your heart, whereas if you got married you'd never know and live happily ever after though there might be one or two odd moments where those dark secrets almost stop being secret.
aww that is so cute. Insha'Allah their life together is full of love and happiness. Let us know when you become an aunty!soha said:my sister met her husband at university
they were both first year students(she was 19 he was 18)
he was the presidant of the islamic association
and she was the vice presidant
they met ,fell in love, and got married at the beginning of second year
they moved in together..went to uni together..worked part time and got on with their lives
they are bothe still studying and working and have been happily married for 1 year and a half now
i thought it was great
Marriage and love is like an endurance run. It's not just based on the fact that you may be infactuated or believe that within a short period you have found your perfect partner but rather how long you can hold out the relationship for. Marriage isn't a thing to mess with, once mariied your really obliging to a contract that says for the next 50 or so years you are to be together. Then of course you can divorce and its no big deal but really it shows that its more an act of desperation than realisation.soha said:wtf wtf
who are u to assume that its unwise?
they were engaged 6 months
and they are doing fine
they are both happy and such a cute couple
its like a b/f g/f relationship
pretend they have been dating 6 months and decide to move intogether
is that unwise?.....their marriage is beautiful
When was I ever telling them off?AsyLum said:On the same thing, i dont know why you should be telling them off for something theyre obviously happy with. You havent been married nor have you the right to judge people based on time.
Its not a fucking rule, its a generalisation.
What the fuck?bscienceboi said:Nor did I judge them for their decision (but only on the decision itself).
An unwise choice doesnt reflect them to be unwise people.AsyLum said:What the fuck?
(Your decision as consenting adults who are in love wishing to make a commitment solid is "unwise no matter the outcome") isnt judging them?
Pfft.