aussiechica7
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hey
marriage = lifelong monogamy between a man and a woman, right? (according 2 Bible and society).
therefore, the situation of high school sweethearts becoming "de facto" and monogamous 2 each other 4 rest of their lives = "marriage". no fancy ceremony/certificate, but in God's eyes they're married. so, not immoral.
look what is a stronger expression of love? wanting 2 have sex now b/c u feel strongly about them (and your body) and want 2 experience it? or WAITING 2 have sex with them until u can 100% commit 2 being with them and ONLY them, forever? if your boo is moving overseas soon, it seems like u guys haven't made the lifelong monogamous commitment 2 the exclusion of all others. therefore, i say, in accordance w/ ur beliefs, don't have sex until u do.
btw, an engagement is a lot easier 2 break off than a marriage. rule of thumb is don't do it til marriage if u want 2 comply w/ ur beliefs. if u say "but we're engaged 2 get married!" u may as well just get married, b/c an engagement is meaningless.
p.s. pls don't get married hastily. u have the rest of ur life 2 screw each other. get to know each other really well, get married, then have sex.
marriage = lifelong monogamy between a man and a woman, right? (according 2 Bible and society).
therefore, the situation of high school sweethearts becoming "de facto" and monogamous 2 each other 4 rest of their lives = "marriage". no fancy ceremony/certificate, but in God's eyes they're married. so, not immoral.
look what is a stronger expression of love? wanting 2 have sex now b/c u feel strongly about them (and your body) and want 2 experience it? or WAITING 2 have sex with them until u can 100% commit 2 being with them and ONLY them, forever? if your boo is moving overseas soon, it seems like u guys haven't made the lifelong monogamous commitment 2 the exclusion of all others. therefore, i say, in accordance w/ ur beliefs, don't have sex until u do.
btw, an engagement is a lot easier 2 break off than a marriage. rule of thumb is don't do it til marriage if u want 2 comply w/ ur beliefs. if u say "but we're engaged 2 get married!" u may as well just get married, b/c an engagement is meaningless.
p.s. pls don't get married hastily. u have the rest of ur life 2 screw each other. get to know each other really well, get married, then have sex.