I'm in the position of the original poster, but my parteners not moving away and we've already had sex. We committed our lives to eachother before doing the deed, and at times we act like the most immature couple that are only concerned with their own wants when we fight but we're learning in this relationship together and I promised him my life. Whenever we have issues, like all couples regardless of being married or not, we're getting better at being open and wording them, resolving them and are learning about eachother and what eachother value both for ourselves and out of other people. Im only human, and on the odd occasion wonder things like what if, but God and I have talked a lot and he's provided direction and strength through everything and without Him and my man I don't think I would have been able to get through final year of school. It all sounds soppy and Dr Phill-ish but anyone explaining their relationship to someone else is like explaining colour to a blind man [sorry if you feel the analogy inappropriate, they were never my forte].